Man gets jail for slapping 4-year-old boy at bus stop in front of other preschool kids

At the hospital, he was found to have bruises on both cheeks and was discharged with a five-day course of paracetamol for pain relief. 

The hospital lodged a police report.

IMPACT ON THE VICTIM

Shaken by the assault, the boy wept twice in his sleep that night and did not dare to attend school for the next few days.

In the months after the assault, he asked his mother anxiously whether the next day was Monday and whether he had to go to school.

He feared going to school because “I am scared the uncle will slap me hard again”.

His parents eventually transferred him to another school.

But he continued to have flashbacks of the assault and cried for prolonged periods. He also continues to have nightmares of the assault to this day.

Deputy Public Prosecutor Etsuko Lim sought four to six months’ jail, listing multiple aggravating factors including the sustained aggression and the viciousness of the slaps.

She said Firdhaus was brazen, slapping the child in broad daylight at a crowded bus stop, alarming and shocking bystanders.

The assault was also “deeply scarring” on the young victim, who would have taken the threat to break his finger seriously since he had also made good the threat to slap him.

Firdhaus was represented by Mr Daryl Lim from the Public Defender’s Office, who said there was no version of events that day that was “acceptable by any means”.

“A young child was hurt both physically and emotionally, and my client does own that fully,” he said.

MOTHER OF VICTIM ADDRESSES COURT

The mother of the victim was in court with family members.

She told the court that although her son was recovering, he was not “recovering fully” as he still has nightmares. His confidence level has also gone down, she said.

“I must say that I’m very perturbed with this incident,” said the woman while Firdhaus stood stiffly in the dock.

“We had to engage in a lot of activities to keep him occupied to gain his confidence back again, to assure him that things are as normal,” she said.

“It also perturbs me to the fact that, now, it puts the puzzle into the picture on why my son has been asking (about) Monday,” said the boy’s mother.

“Because I’ve never known from him that he actually was being threatened to (have his finger broken) or (that the accused would) see him on the following Monday.”

She said she did not want to prolong her son’s distress, especially since the other child involved was his classmate and had been in the same class as her son since playgroup.

“As (his) mother, I felt that we want to have a closure for him,” said the woman. “And we also hope that the accused will acknowledge the harm that he caused and apologise to (my son).”

She said that while an apology cannot undo what happened or restore her son’s sense of safety, it is important to the family.

Firdhaus then apologised to the victim’s family in court.

“To the victim’s family and everybody in the court, I wish to sincerely apologise for the actions that I did, and I hope you really forgive me and also give me a chance to be a better man in the future,” he said.

The victim’s mother also asked to see the footage of the assault, but was told to ask the investigating officer.

District Judge Koo Zhi Xuan said inflicting such raw violence on a young victim was “a vile and intolerable act”.

“Such violence would not have been morally justified, had the accused committed the same acts against his own children at home, let alone a child he was not even acquainted with in a public and crowded setting where other children were present,” he said.

He agreed with the prosecution on several of the aggravating factors, saying the emotional turmoil suffered by the victim and his family was “particularly weighty”.

Firdhaus asked to defer his jail term until Nov 13 as his wife, who was also in court, is 23 weeks’ pregnant.

His lawyer said the couple have a hospital appointment on Nov 12 as the foetus remains in a breech position. They will obtain advice on whether this will necessitate an earlier delivery.

The judge noted that granting the request may lead to further applications for deferment, such as if Firdhaus’ wife requires surgery.

However, he granted the application when Firdhaus gave his word that he would surrender on Nov 13 and not seek further deferments.

The judge allowed the victim’s family to leave the courtroom first before allowing Firdhaus and his wife to leave.

For voluntarily causing hurt to a minor, he could have been jailed for up to six years, fined up to S$10,000, or both.

For using criminal force on a minor, he could have been jailed for up to six months, fined up to S$3,000, or both.