SINGAPORE – Clarence Ching, 32, knows what it is like to grow up believing he was never quite good enough.
He was the only child of two educators – a teacher and a lecturer – who did everything they could to help him succeed.
His parents volunteered for two years to secure him a place at Henry Park Primary School, a popular school. His mother even took a year off work to coach him for the Primary School Leaving Examination.
Despite their efforts, he was a lacklustre student.
He scored 196 points in the PSLE and entered the five-year Normal (Academic) stream, spending an extra year in secondary school while many of his peers went to the four-year Express stream.
“With the Normal label slapped on you, you felt like a failure in the education system,” said the former Fairfield Methodist Secondary School student.
These experiences have shaped his life’s mission. Today, he is the founder of social mobility charity Access Singapore, which seeks to help students from disadvantaged backgrounds build the social capital they need to expand their opportunities in life.
Diagnosed with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder in primary school, Ching struggled to concentrate and felt he was not cut out for academics.
Over time, he defined his worth by his grades. This changed only when he met one of his mentors in life, former MP for Jalan Besar GRC Lily Neo.
After his O levels, he started volunteering at Neo’s Meet the People sessions, drawn by a desire to help the low-income elderly living in her ward, having read about poor seniors and families in the news.
Over the next nine years, he helped her do research and draft parliamentary speeches and questions – responsibilities that he never imagined someone like him would be entrusted with.
“I felt I wasn’t good enough, but it was a self-limiting mindset.
“Why do I care so much about how others think about me or where I come from? So what if I didn’t come from ACS, Raffles or Hwa Chong?” he said, referring to some of the top schools in Singapore.
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