SINGAPORE: A man who met a maid on dating application Tinder had a sexual relationship with her and was later egged on by the woman to repeatedly rape his 11-year-old daughter.
The 54-year-old American man, who cannot be named to protect his daughter’s identity, was sentenced to 24 years’ jail on Monday (Oct 27).
The maid, 33-year-old Filipino domestic helper Albao Shiela Marie Ibales, was given 22 years’ jail. There is no gag order on disclosing her identity.
The man pleaded guilty to three charges of statutory rape while in an exploitative relationship and one count of perverting justice, with another 12 charges taken into consideration.
Shiela admitted to three charges of abetting rape, with another 11 charges taken into consideration.
The court heard that the victim’s parents had been separated since about 2019. The victim, who was then 11 and in primary school, lived with her mother and her other relatives in a Housing and Development Board flat on weekdays, but would stay with her father on weekends.
In early 2022, the man met Shiela on Tinder and they began dating, regularly engaging in sex and exchanging “sexually charged and deviant messages”.
These included messages about indecent acts involving a future child they might have, as well as a future pet dog.
In March 2023, while his daughter was staying with him for the weekend, the man exchanged sexualised messages with Shiela about his daughter.
Shiela asked the man for a photo of the victim in a sex act with him and “advised” him on how to get her to comply, the prosecution said. The man then came up with the idea of a “bet”, involving a series of acts which the victim must accomplish for her to get a reward.
He filmed the sex acts, which were sent to Shiela. The woman replied: “Amazing!”
At one point, Shiela was “dissatisfied” with one of the videos as the man’s face was not shown, and the man redid the video capturing his face.
The acts culminated in the man raping his daughter, egged on by Shiela.





