SINGAPORE: A woman sued her ex-colleague for battery after the police chose not to take further action against him for alleged sexual assault.
While a district court awarded her damages of more than S$50,000 (US$39,000) for reasons including “pain and suffering”, the High Court overturned the judgment on Wednesday (Mar 25).
Justice Chua Lee Ming found instead that the woman, Ms Kang May Teng Maria Olivia, had not proven the alleged sexual assault.
He granted the appeal by the man, Mr Chua Jun Yang, setting aside the district court’s orders. The woman has to pay costs to the man.
There was no gag order imposed in this civil suit.
THE CASE
Ms Kang and Mr Chua first met in 2015 when they were colleagues at the Defence Policy Office (DPO) of the Ministry of Defence (MINDEF).
By May 2015, they were in a sexually intimate relationship but neither of them regarded the other as a boyfriend or girlfriend.
To Ms Kang, the relationship was “not at a serious enough stage”, while Mr Chua said it was more of a “casual” relationship which included sex whenever Ms Kang was agreeable.
Mr Chua wanted to be open about their relationship but Ms Kang wanted to keep it secret, with this issue being a constant source of tension in their relationship, the court stated.
According to Ms Kang, she ended the relationship around December 2015 because she felt they were incompatible, but they remained friends.
Mr Chua claimed they were still physically intimate after the end of 2015. He said he ended his romantic interest in Ms Kang after he found out from a mutual friend that he was merely someone Ms Kang turned to when she was bored, as he was “very accommodating” in this regard.
THE ALLEGED INCIDENT
The suit arose from an incident that occurred in July 2016 when the pair had drinks at a nightclub with some colleagues.
They went to Ms Kang’s place on her invitation for sex.
According to Ms Kang, she showered in the bathroom and “sobered up”, regretting inviting Mr Chua over for sex.
She said she told him to go home but Mr Chua refused to leave and became emotional, pleading with her to get back into a romantic relationship with him.
Ms Kang claimed that the conversation was heated and that she told Mr Chua to see himself out. She then claimed that Mr Chua removed his clothes, wrapped his arms around her forcefully and restrained her before sexually assaulting her.
Ms Kang claimed that she shouted at him to get out, which he did.
Mr Chua said he could not recall what exactly happened at Ms Kang’s house, but denied doing anything against her consent.
He said it would not be the first time they were sexually intimate or had sexual relations after visiting a club or having alcohol.
The judgment contained many messages exchanged between the pair past 4am on Jul 10, 2016 when the alleged assault occurred.
This included texts from Mr Chua stating “stop stringing me along if this is going nowhere” and “let’s avoid situations that we both don’t want to be in”.
He also sent messages to another mutual friend that morning, saying “Everyone needs to stop saying that I like Maria” and that “it’s going nowhere” and “I’ve been trying since God knows when”.





