‘Singapore no longer feels like home’ — Man nearing 40 contemplates moving overseas

“Singapore, like any other country, has its pros and cons.”

The post has resonated with some netizens who say they, too, have quietly wrestled with similar thoughts about moving to another country.

“I couldn’t agree more,” one commenter said. “I’m feeling stuck, and no matter how hard I work, there’s no growth because of rising costs.”

“Go to those countries and explore new possibilities,” another advised. “If you choose a country with a currency weaker than the Singapore dollar, you get the bang-for-the-buck experience of becoming an instant millionaire.”

Others, however, had a different opinion. Compared to other countries, one user said that Singapore is much better in almost all aspects.

“You should try living overseas for a while. Get a 1–2 year posting. To be honest, having lived overseas for a couple of years (Europe and Asia), I am very thankful for what I have in SG,” they wrote.

“A stable government, a roof over our heads, government support systems (e.g., working mum grants for childcare), safety when I’m walking on the streets at night, great work-life balance, and a salary that allows me to enjoy good food and travelling with my family whenever I want,” they added.

Another echoed this view, stating, “Complains about the rat race, burnout, and job market, but mentions Japan as an option for relocation? Singapore, like any other country, has its pros and cons.” 

“As some of the other comments have suggested, try living overseas for an extended time (not as a tourist but as a local), and you might have a different perspective of Singapore or realise that Singapore is definitely not the place for you.”

In other news, a man expressed that he felt upset after discovering that two of his colleagues who had handed in their resignation letters were promptly rewarded with generous counteroffers and now take home significantly higher salaries than he does.

On Monday (Feb 16), he took to the r/singaporejobs subreddit to share that this “weird resign culture” has been happening in their department (which is a niche in their industry) for quite some time.

Read more: Man upset as colleagues who submitted resignation letters received counteroffers from company and now earn more than him