@anxiouslyalej How to Never Get Taken for Granted Again ⬇️ 1️⃣ Stop Giving to Earn Love The more you do for a man before he’s met your standards, the more he believes he deserves it… just for being him. He doesn’t think “I need to step up.” He thinks “I must be that guy.” Overgiving doesn’t create gratitude. It creates entitlement. 2️⃣ Only Invest Where There’s Reciprocity You should never be doing more than the person you’re with. Love is not built on potential.. it’s built on patterns. If you keep hoping he’ll change after the move-in, the marriage, or the baby… you’re delaying disappointment. 3️⃣ Make Self-Respect Your Baseline High-value women don’t prove they’re worthy. They believe they’re worthy. They don’t chase. They observe. They don’t beg. They filter. The more you prioritize yourself, the more others learn to respect your energy. 4️⃣ Let Consequences Speak Louder Than Requests Words don’t change people. Boundaries do. The moment someone feels they can do less and still have full access to you, they will. The antidote? Show them what it looks like to lose you. Giving more doesn’t inspire more. It enables less. #feminineenergy #womensdatingadvice #blackcatenergy #datingforwomen #relationships #datingadvice #avoidantattachment #datinginyour30s #datingcoachforwomen #dismissiveavoidant #breakups
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