Breastfeeding is the clearest example. Haleema does mix feeds – giving both breast milk and infant formula to her son. “Just because you are doing exclusive breastfeeding does not mean I should be doing it,” she said. “We all have different commitments.”
As long as her baby is healthy, that’s all that matters to Haleema. The pressure also feels generational – her mother breastfed her for just two weeks after a C-section and wasn’t judged. “My mum’s time was more forgiving,” she said.
When she posts on her Instagram about her challenges with sleep deprivation, going back to work and feeling overwhelmed, some mums are surprised. “When you’re in the limelight, people think you have everything sorted,” she said.
