S’porean mum shares struggle taking bus with baby, hopes people will be kinder

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She added that other passengers simply watched and did not check if she was okay.

Taking MRT can also be challenging

Jewels also told MS News that she faces challenges when taking the train with her baby.

“We can only wait for the lifts at MRT stations to go to the platform level,” she said.

She added that waiting for lifts can take “super long” at stations with larger crowds.

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“There are a lot of people who really need to take the lift, like pregnant ladies, people with luggage or strollers, elderly people, and people on Personal Mobility Aids (PMAs). But usually one lift can only fit one PMA and one stroller,” she explained.

She also said she sometimes feels discouraged when people who do not need the lift still use it. “I believe that the lifts should be given priority to people who really need it.”

Jewels added that train cabins may also lack enough space for families, noting that there are only a limited number of areas meant for strollers and wheelchairs.

“I’ve encountered a cabin with about seven or eight strollers before. The space was really insufficient, which made it more inconvenient for everyone.”

Urges the public to be kinder to those struggling

Despite her experience, the mother said she does not blame bus drivers for not helping.

“If he’s going to stop at every stop to help everyone with a stroller, the bus is going to be delayed like crazy,” she explained.

However, she felt the situation reflected a broader social issue.

“If you see a solo parent struggling, or any mother or father struggling to carry a stroller, maybe you can lend a helping hand,” she said.

I feel like the world would be a better place if everybody is a little bit kinder.

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That said, Jewels mentioned that she has also had positive experiences when taking public transport.

“There’s always a lot of helpful and kind Singaporeans around,” she said. “They’ll usually help me with the stroller or give up their seat on the train so I can sit down and hold onto the stroller in front of me.”

She hopes her experience will encourage more people to offer help when they see someone who may need it.

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Netizens share similar experiences boarding buses with strollers

Her post drew many comments, with several parents saying they had experienced similar struggles carrying heavy strollers onto buses by themselves.

Some commenters also shared that they worry about being judged when they need to lift their strollers onto the bus alone.

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One netizen said she places her baby in a carrier before boarding to make it easier to manage the stroller.

She also suggested alighting backwards, which makes it easier to pull the stroller down even with the baby inside.

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Others suggested using the ramp typically meant for wheelchair users to board the bus, saying they use it to push their strollers up as well.

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