SINGAPORE: When she was 13, a girl’s biological father began sexually abusing her.
Over three years, the teenage girl endured the abuse until her father threatened to tell her husband about the acts. The accused’s crimes then came to light.
The 40-year-old man was sentenced to 17-and-a-half years’ jail and 16 strokes of the cane on Thursday (Mar 5).
He earlier pleaded guilty to two counts of sexual penetration of a minor under 16, and two counts of exploitative sexual penetration of a minor above 16 but below 18. Another nine charges, mostly of a similar nature, were considered for his sentencing.
A gag order has been imposed on the identity of the accused and other details that could identify the victim, now around 22 years old, to protect her.
In an earlier court hearing, it was revealed that the victim was kept in the dark about her parents’ identities.
Born out of wedlock in 2003, the victim was raised by her maternal grandmother, who pretended to be the victim’s mother
The family members pretended that the victim’s parents – who married in 2009 – were her siblings.
The victim only learned the truth about her birth parents in primary school after chancing upon her birth certificate.
The abuse began in 2017, when the victim was around 13.
Her father asked her to demonstrate a sexual act she had done with an ex-boyfriend. After this, his advances became more audacious.
He began molesting her and violating her in other ways, generally at night when the family was asleep.
He would also promise the victim things in return for the abuse, such as additional pocket money or permission to go out with friends.
In the midst of the acts, the victim wrote a letter to her father asking him to stop. She set out how she had been “overjoyed” to learn that the accused was her father as she yearned to feel “real father love”.
She said that she forgave him for not raising her and watching her grow, but then he had “torn” her heart into “millions of pieces” by his subsequent abhorrent acts.
“It really hurts knowing that you don’t actually care nor truly (love) me. It really hurts. You always lie saying that you will stop but you don’t. Don’t you think I have feelings too,” she wrote.





