MOMENTS OF TRUST
It’s easy to assume our parents simply don’t want to try, or are content sticking to familiar routines.
My dad resisted going digital for years. At first, I thought it was stubbornness. Over time, I realised it was complicated. After a lifetime of being the one who knew what to do, asking for help can feel embarrassing. Even small requests require a shift in pride and comfort, and watching him navigate these moments has taught me empathy.
These requests are moments of trust. For adult children, rather than interruptions, they are chances to guide and reassure our parents. Community programmes that teach seniors digital skills succeed not because of their content, but because the environment feels safe: No one is singled out, mistakes are normal and curiosity is encouraged.
