{"id":98051,"date":"2026-11-07T09:50:03","date_gmt":"2026-11-07T01:50:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=98051"},"modified":"2026-11-07T09:50:03","modified_gmt":"2026-11-07T01:50:03","slug":"i-raised-3-children-and-rebuilt-my-life-after-divorce-then-i-went-to-university-at-49","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=98051","title":{"rendered":"I raised 3 children and rebuilt my life after divorce. Then I went to university at 49"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">I could not imagine committing myself to another three years of study while working and taking care of my children, as well as my elderly mother, who needed me as well.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">I needed something I could realistically fit into my life.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span>So, in March 2021, I enrolled in a 12-month business degree programme offered by Edinburgh Napier University through the PSB Academy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span>Unlike a three-year programme, I could see the finish line.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>BEST-LAID PLANS UP IN THE AIR\u00a0<\/h2>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span>Despite my best-laid plans, I could not have foreseen how much my life would change in that year.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span>A few years before, my mother had been diagnosed with dementia at the age of 79.<\/span>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">She had been living alone, but when her condition worsened, she had to move in with me.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Around the same time, I sold my marital home and bought another property. I was juggling caregiving, my studies and the administrative matters that came with <span>the move and my mother&#8217;s care<\/span>.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">With two of my sons still in school, something was always happening at home.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Although most university lectures were held online due to the pandemic, I made time to attend in-person lessons whenever possible, as I found them more engaging and productive.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">My responsibilities grew, but my support network did not. I was still a single parent with no one to turn to for help.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">My older sister lives in the United States, so I could not simply call on her to help care for my mother either.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">I realised then that no perfect arrangement would let me fully focus on my studies.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">I just had to work around what life was already asking of me.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<center><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.channelnewsasia.com\/cna-insider\/voices\/late-start-university-adult-learning-back-school-studies-6522811\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article At Source <\/a><br \/>\n<center\/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I could not imagine committing myself to another three years of study while working and taking care of my children, as well as my elderly&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":98052,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2611],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-98051","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-buzz-headlines","wpcat-2611-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98051","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=98051"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98051\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/98052"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=98051"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=98051"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=98051"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}