{"id":98025,"date":"2026-11-07T06:37:05","date_gmt":"2026-11-06T22:37:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=98025"},"modified":"2026-11-07T06:37:05","modified_gmt":"2026-11-06T22:37:05","slug":"so-my-28m-gf-26f-of-two-years-has-always-been-the-kiasi-type-when-it-comes-t","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=98025","title":{"rendered":"So my (28M) GF (26F) of two years has always been the kiasi type when it comes t…"},"content":{"rendered":"


\nSo my (28M) GF (26F) of two years has always been the kiasi type when it comes to female friends. Last night, we had a major argument over nothing\u2014literally just because a female colleague messaged me work stuff at 8 PM. I went to shower, left my phone unlocked on the desk (big mistake, I know).
\nWhen I came out, she was sitting on the bed looking smug.<\/p>\n

She handed me my phone and said, “Now you don’t have to worry about other girls anymore.”<\/p>\n

Guys, I opened my WhatsApp and contacts list. Wiped clean. EVERY SINGLE FEMALE CONTACT. Deleted. Blocked. Gone.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about female clients, my direct supervisor, my primary school buddies, my cousins, and worst of all\u2014MY MOTHER. She actually deleted and blocked my own mom because “you pay more attention to your mother’s texts than mine.”<\/p>\n

I lost my absolute mind. I told her she\u2019s completely out of her mind and to pack her things and get out of my BTO application (thank God we haven’t officially submitted the final documents yet). She started crying, saying I\u2019m choosing “other women” over her and that if I really loved her, I wouldn’t mind starting fresh.<\/p>\n

I was so furious I told her straight up: “This is unauthorized access to personal data, property damage, and loss of business contacts. If my work or family relationship is damaged by this, I will report you to the police and consult a lawyer to sue you.”<\/p>\n

Now her friends are spamming me, calling me an AH for “threatening legal action against your own GF over some contacts can just re-add what.” My own mother (after I unblocked her WhatsApp) is telling me to just break up quietly and don’t make it a police case because paiseh.<\/p>\n

Is it really that crazy to want to take legal action or report police for this level of siao control? I feel like my privacy was totally violated. Any lawyers here know if got case or not?
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