{"id":9042,"date":"2025-11-05T11:58:35","date_gmt":"2025-11-05T03:58:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=9042"},"modified":"2025-11-05T11:58:35","modified_gmt":"2025-11-05T03:58:35","slug":"caring-for-an-elderly-parent-from-afar-free-hong-kong-group-therapy-is-helping-people-cope","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=9042","title":{"rendered":"Caring for an elderly parent from afar? Free Hong Kong group therapy is helping people cope"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div id=\"\">\n<p datatype=\"p\" data-qa=\"Component-Component\" class=\"e8zc9q40 css-1c6uqr6 ec74h0k1\">For thousands of Hong Kong professionals with ageing parents overseas, caregiving is not a daily routine, but a long-distance act of love, logistics and emotional labour.<\/p>\n<p datatype=\"p\" data-qa=\"Component-Component\" class=\"e8zc9q40 css-1c6uqr6 ec74h0k1\">Angela Kaur Baura, a counsellor-in-training, made a quiet vow at her father\u2019s bedside during what was meant to be a celebration of his and her mother\u2019s 50th wedding anniversary. When he died suddenly, that promise \u2013 to care for her mother \u2013 became her compass.<\/p>\n<p datatype=\"p\" data-qa=\"Component-Component\" class=\"e8zc9q40 css-1c6uqr6 ec74h0k1\">In the eight months since, she has shuttled between Hong Kong and Dubai, coordinating medical care remotely and learning to advocate from thousands of miles away.<\/p>\n<p datatype=\"p\" data-qa=\"Component-Component\" class=\"e8zc9q40 css-1c6uqr6 ec74h0k1\">\u201cFor the longest time, I took my parents for granted,\u201d she says. \u201cNow I call my mother every day. I\u2019ve learned that, [in] being a distance caregiver, guilt, regret, sadness and more are entirely normal feelings, if they don\u2019t overwhelm or derail us.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"image-inline-container e1a5rv550 css-1llrc1m e1yqhwb40\" data-qa=\"Component-renderMap-StyledDiv\">\n<div class=\"image-inline caption e1fvabeq0 css-19sk4h4 ea9pn0s0\" data-qa=\"Component-Container\">\n<figure class=\"image-inline caption ea9pn0s1 css-12vv9w2 e1gf69pb0\" data-qa=\"ArticleImage-ArticleImageContainer\">\n<div data-qa=\"ArticleImage-handleRenderImage-ImageContainer\" class=\"css-0 e1gf69pb3\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Angela Kaur Baura with her mother. Photo: Angela Kaur Baura\" data-qa=\"BaseImage-handleRenderImage-StyledImage\" class=\"e1gf69pb2 css-6ikqhs e445x7d0\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/img.i-scmp.com\/cdn-cgi\/image\/fit=contain,width=1024,format=auto\/sites\/default\/files\/d8\/images\/canvas\/2025\/11\/04\/8083f033-cd77-4127-859d-8b0b9ff10a49_2a48f19f.jpg\" title=\"Angela Kaur Baura with her mother. Photo: Angela Kaur Baura\"\/><\/div><figcaption data-qa=\"ArticleImage-DescriptionContainer\" class=\"css-1ixmelf e1gf69pb1\">Angela Kaur Baura with her mother. Photo: Angela Kaur Baura<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div datatype=\"p\" data-qa=\"Component-Component\" class=\"e8zc9q40 css-1xdhyk6 ec74h0k0\">She credits her resilience to <span data-qa=\"Component-Text\" class=\"css-0 ef9u0v00\">self-care<\/span>: weekly singing lessons, her counselling studies and a strong personal network.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.scmp.com\/lifestyle\/health-wellness\/article\/3331488\/caring-elderly-parent-afar-free-hong-kong-group-therapy-helping-people-cope?utm_source=rss_feed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article At Source <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For thousands of Hong Kong professionals with ageing parents overseas, caregiving is not a daily routine, but a long-distance act of love, logistics and emotional&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1864,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[8210,5756,708,4725,1147,761,4830,3569,5231,3626,121,7611],"class_list":["post-9042","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-bored-interesting","tag-afar","tag-caring","tag-cope","tag-elderly","tag-free","tag-group","tag-helping","tag-hong","tag-kong","tag-parent","tag-people","tag-therapy","wpcat-33-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9042","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9042"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9042\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9042"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9042"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9042"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}