{"id":85958,"date":"2026-09-18T16:58:16","date_gmt":"2026-09-18T08:58:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=85958"},"modified":"2026-09-18T16:58:16","modified_gmt":"2026-09-18T08:58:16","slug":"singaporean-living-in-thailand-for-over-10-years-shares-why-he-wont-be-moving-home-lifestyle-news","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=85958","title":{"rendered":"Singaporean living in Thailand for over 10 years shares why he won&#8217;t be moving home, Lifestyle News"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Can you uproot your life, move to another country and never look back?\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>For one Singaporean who has been living in Thailand for over a decade, the answer is a firm yes.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>In an Instagram post on Thursday (Sept 17), Alden Lee, a small business owner in Thailand, shared that one of the questions he gets asked most as an expat dad there is whether he would ever move back to Singapore.<\/p>\n<p>His response? An unequivocal &#8220;absolutely no&#8221;.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DdYyTOWz9Tk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DdYyTOWz9Tk\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>While he acknowledged that &#8220;things could change&#8221;, Alden said the value for money, friendly Thai culture, and variety of places to explore were among the reasons he preferred living in Thailand.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>He added that while some may argue Singapore offers higher pay and better opportunities, and for his children &#8220;better education, better career paths&#8221; and generally a &#8220;better life&#8221; \u2014 his answer remains unchanged.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My kids are living a really good life,&#8221; he said, sharing that his family is living in a gated community with international schools nearby, while his children spend time outdoors every day instead of being &#8220;stuck to screens&#8221;.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Alden continued: &#8220;They have friends in the same neighbourhood, they have a large garden.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Thinking back on his own childhood, the father said he shared a similar lifestyle back in the day.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I remember myself when I was a kid, I would be playing outside until the sun goes down, until the street lamps came out,&#8221; he recalled.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And that&#8217;s the life my kids are living right now. If this was in Singapore, no, it wouldn&#8217;t happen.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Alden also pushed back on the idea that there are &#8220;no opportunities&#8221; in Thailand, calling it &#8220;totally wrong&#8221;.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>While he concurred that the minimum wage is low, with a starting salary of &#8220;under $1,000&#8221;, he felt that it was not a measure of career path or opportunities.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There are so many ways to earn money here, especially if you&#8217;re building something for yourself,&#8221; he said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Ultimately, Alden said he did not move to Thailand for monetary reasons.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I moved here for life, for comfort,&#8221; he said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And 10 years in, I think I will still make the same choice again.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DchkqyJzDW-\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DchkqyJzDW-\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Alden&#8217;s take drew mixed reactions from netizens, many of which were supportive.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Agreed. I worked in Bangkok for seven years. Every weekend can visit a new cafe outside Bangkok,&#8221; read a comment, while another said: &#8220;I love how you measure happiness. It is not all about more money.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Others however, felt his comparison was unfair.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You&#8217;re living in an expat bubble in Thailand, by your own admission. That&#8217;s why it feels like it&#8217;s better value. You&#8217;re not living like a local. You need to compare this with a cushy expat life in Singapore,&#8221; someone pointed out.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Another netizen was happy for Alden but advised that he should &#8220;be grateful&#8221; to his home country for giving him the opportunity to set up a life elsewhere, and that there was no need to compare or &#8220;downplay&#8221; his birthplace.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Do not burn bridges. Home is home. Just be grateful,&#8221; the commenter said.<\/p>\n<p>While the video didn&#8217;t reveal which part of Thailand he stays in, Alden mentioned in an earlier clip posted in August that he used to live in a rural part of Thailand located two hours away from Bangkok when he first arrived in the country.<\/p>\n<p>AsiaOne has reached out to Alden for more information.<\/p>\n<p>[[nid:742614]]<\/p>\n<p>carol.ong@asiaone.com<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<br \/><br \/>\n<center><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.asiaone.com\/lifestyle\/singaporean-alden-lee-thailand-not-moving-back\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article At Source <\/a><br \/>\n<center\/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Can you uproot your life, move to another country and never look back?\u00a0 For one Singaporean who has been living in Thailand for over a&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":85961,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2611],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-85958","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-buzz-headlines","wpcat-2611-id"],"brizy_media":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85958","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=85958"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85958\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/85961"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=85958"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=85958"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=85958"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}