{"id":84990,"date":"2026-09-15T02:39:04","date_gmt":"2026-09-14T18:39:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=84990"},"modified":"2026-09-15T02:39:04","modified_gmt":"2026-09-14T18:39:04","slug":"childrens-play-restrictions-spark-concerns","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=84990","title":{"rendered":"Children&#8217;s play restrictions spark concerns"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div xmlns:default=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\">\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">A woman has questioned \u201cno ball games allowed\u201d signs in common spaces, asking whether it is becoming harder for families with children to feel welcome in their neighbourhoods.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">In a heartfelt Instagram <a class=\"text-primary-brand no-underline hover:underline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DdLvNv7H8UB\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">carousel post<\/a> on Sept 13, user @thepinksoldier, whose bio lists her name as Victoria, said Singapore is encouraging more families to have children, but wondered whether society is truly creating spaces that welcome them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">After noticing a sign on her floor of her HDB block that morning stating, \u201cNo <a class=\"text-primary-brand no-underline hover:underline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.stomp.sg\/singapore-seen\/what-if-someone-gets-hit-stomper-questions-youths-playing-cricket-sengkang-void-deck?ref=inline-article-9672165\" target=\"_blank\" data-discover=\"true\" rel=\"noopener\">ball games<\/a> allowed at this common space\u201d, she said it got her reflecting on the issue.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">The sign, put up by Punggol Town Council, added: \u201cIn view of public safety, please take ball games to designated game courts instead.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">The woman\u2019s post has since garnered more than 4,000 likes and 770 reposts.<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"my-lg md:my-xl\">\n<p><hr class=\"flex-1 border-grayscale-100 lg:hidden\"\/><span class=\"text-grayscale-400 text-14 leading-16 font-primary text-center lg:text-left p-sm\">Scroll to continue reading<\/span><\/p>\n<hr class=\"flex-1 border-grayscale-100 my-md\"\/>\n<hr class=\"my-md border-grayscale-100\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h2 class=\"lg:text-28 lg:leading-33.6px pt-md font-primary text-24 font-bold leading-1.2\">Questions \u2018no ball games allowed\u2019 signs<\/h2>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Victoria said she was not questioning the sign because she believed her children should be allowed to do whatever they wanted, but because she wanted to understand who made the decision and why there had been no conversation with families living on that level.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">When children play along the <a class=\"text-primary-brand no-underline hover:underline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.stomp.sg\/community-voices\/i-do-my-thing-you-do-yours-60-year-old-corridor-runway-aunty-refuses-let-age-dictate-her-style?ref=inline-article-9672165\" target=\"_blank\" data-discover=\"true\" rel=\"noopener\">corridor<\/a>, she said, it usually involves two primary school boys kicking a ball to each other, a few children playing a game, or simply running along the corridor.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cThey\u2019re not playing a tournament. They\u2019re not screaming or playing at night. They\u2019re just kids playing,\u201d she wrote.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">She added that her children mainly play on weekends, either in the late morning from 11am onwards or after lunch between 1pm and 3pm, with parental supervision at all times.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Besides the corridor, she noted that there was also a \u201cno ball games allowed\u201d sign at the grass field below her block, where children could previously run and play while parents got to know one another.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cNow, the places where children can simply kick a ball around seem to be getting smaller and smaller,\u201d she wrote.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cWhere do the kids go?\u201d she questioned, adding that her <a class=\"text-primary-brand no-underline hover:underline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.stomp.sg\/the-big-picture\/cheaper-childcare-fees-more-spore-babies-parents-and-dinks-say-much-bigger-issues-hold-them-back?ref=inline-article-9672165\" target=\"_blank\" data-discover=\"true\" rel=\"noopener\">children<\/a> often tell her they are \u201cbored\u201d because they cannot play downstairs.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">With both the corridor and grass field restricted for play, Victoria said this had become a \u201cproblem\u201d.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"lg:text-28 lg:leading-33.6px pt-md font-primary text-24 font-bold leading-1.2\">\u2018Don\u2019t just shut down the activity\u2019<\/h2>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">She said one part of <a class=\"text-primary-brand no-underline hover:underline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.stomp.sg\/trending-now\/father-prepares-100-pairs-earplugs-passengers-case-8-month-old-baby-cries-during-flight?ref=inline-article-9672165\" target=\"_blank\" data-discover=\"true\" rel=\"noopener\">parenting<\/a> that people do not always see is how parents have to juggle work, school, homework, meals, household chores and other responsibilities.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Not everyone has grandparents or a helper to rely on for support, she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cNot every parent can drop everything and bring their kids to a designated court every time they want to kick a ball for 20 minutes,\u201d she added.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">She agreed that children require boundaries, parents need to teach them to be considerate, residents deserve peace and dangerous or excessive behaviour should be addressed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">But she questioned whether there could be a middle ground, such as setting reasonable hours, having guidelines or finding alternatives for children to play.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Parents all just finding ways to make play work within those boundaries, she explained.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cDon\u2019t just shut down the activity without giving families a voice or a workable solution,\u201d she said. \u201cI\u2019m not asking for special treatment, I\u2019m asking for balance.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"lg:text-28 lg:leading-33.6px pt-md font-primary text-24 font-bold leading-1.2\">\u2018Don\u2019t shut children out\u2019<\/h2>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Victoria also asked whether communities were truly ready to co-exist with children.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cWhere do our kids fit into our shared spaces?\u201d she asked in her caption.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">While acknowledging that children are not always quiet, she said they need space to move and socialise.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cIf we keep restricting where children can be, please give families somewhere else to go. Don\u2019t just send them home,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">She stressed that the conversation should be about finding ways for children to play while also respecting those living around them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cDon\u2019t just shut children out. Give them somewhere to belong,\u201d she wrote.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Stomp has reached out to thepinksoldier and Punggol Town Council for more information.<\/p>\n<hr class=\"bg-primary-100 h-px border-0 mt-lg md:mt-xxl\"\/>\n<div class=\"flex flex-col gap-xl rounded-xl border border-primary-100 mt-lg md:mt-xxl\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.stomp.sg\/assets\/stomp-comment-COLiWNMD.png\" alt=\"Stomp Comment\" class=\"absolute -mt-lg -ml-xs w-[203px] md:w-[255px]\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Have something to say? 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