{"id":83014,"date":"2026-09-07T21:04:54","date_gmt":"2026-09-07T13:04:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=83014"},"modified":"2026-09-07T21:04:54","modified_gmt":"2026-09-07T13:04:54","slug":"exlovergirl_carissa1-want-to-be-better-at-dating-stop-trusting-your-feelings-m","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=83014","title":{"rendered":"@exlovergirl_carissa1 Want to be better at dating? Stop trusting your feelings m&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@exlovergirl_carissa1\/video\/7678392481402178847\" data-video-id=\"7678392481402178847\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\">\n<section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@exlovergirl_carissa1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@exlovergirl_carissa1?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">@exlovergirl_carissa1<\/a> <\/p>\n<p>Want to be better at dating? Stop trusting your feelings more than the facts. 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