{"id":81571,"date":"2026-09-02T16:29:57","date_gmt":"2026-09-02T08:29:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=81571"},"modified":"2026-09-02T16:29:57","modified_gmt":"2026-09-02T08:29:57","slug":"shandrickafreeanna-your-trauma-is-not-an-instruction-manual-for-the-next-person","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=81571","title":{"rendered":"@shandrickafreeanna Your trauma is not an instruction manual for the next person&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@shandrickafreeanna\/video\/7679662489629494542\" data-video-id=\"7679662489629494542\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\">\n<section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@shandrickafreeanna\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@shandrickafreeanna?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">@shandrickafreeanna<\/a> <\/p>\n<p>Your trauma is not an instruction manual for the next person. Let him show you who HE is without giving him a detailed blueprint of what hurt you before. <a title=\"datingadvice\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/datingadvice?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#DatingAdvice<\/a> <a title=\"relationshipadvice\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/relationshipadvice?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#RelationshipAdvice<\/a> <a title=\"datingwithintention\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/datingwithintention?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#DatingWithIntention<\/a> <a title=\"relationshipredflags\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/relationshipredflags?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#RelationshipRedFlags<\/a> <a title=\"womendating\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/womendating?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#WomenDating<\/a><\/p>\n<p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - Shandricka Freeanna\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7679662536102333197?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c original sound &#8211; Shandricka Freeanna<\/a> <\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<br \/>\n<center><\/p>\n<p>Tap Video and \ud83d\udd08 To Unmute<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@shandrickafreeanna\/video\/7679662489629494542\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Tiktok <\/a> Credits <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@shandrickafreeanna\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p><center\/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tap Video and \ud83d\udd08 To Unmute Tiktok Credits<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":81573,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[31],"tags":[861,18991,29340,7376,29339,5294],"class_list":["post-81571","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-people-tips","tag-dating-tips-for-women","tag-instruction","tag-manual","tag-person","tag-shandrickafreeanna","tag-trauma","wpcat-31-id"],"brizy_media":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81571","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=81571"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81571\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/81573"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=81571"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=81571"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=81571"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}