{"id":81073,"date":"2026-08-31T20:19:17","date_gmt":"2026-08-31T12:19:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=81073"},"modified":"2026-08-31T20:19:17","modified_gmt":"2026-08-31T12:19:17","slug":"thevalerieadams-what-secure-women-dont-do-after-an-amazing-first-date-this-is","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=81073","title":{"rendered":"@thevalerieadams What secure women DON\u2019T do after an amazing first date  This is&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@thevalerieadams\/video\/7661789273116495135\" data-video-id=\"7661789273116495135\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\">\n<section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@thevalerieadams\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@thevalerieadams?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">@thevalerieadams<\/a> <\/p>\n<p>What secure women DON\u2019T do after an amazing first date \ud83c\udf39\u2935\ufe0f This is a habit worth building so that you can be sure to only emotionally invest in men who are serious about a relationship  (&#038; would be a compatible fit for you!) It\u2019s not that secure women never have anxious thoughts or have old wounds pop up in dating\u2026 It\u2019s that she uses the tools she has to walk herself through the anxious moment and can easily get herself back to a state of feeling secure &#038; confident in all that she has to offer \ud83d\udc8e If you want to receive the entire tool kit + processes to go from an anxious to secure in dating so you can attract a healthy relationship \ud83d\udc47\ud83c\udffc Join the SECURELY CHOSEN course at top of my page \ud83c\udf39\ud83d\udd17 . . . <a title=\"dating\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/dating?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#dating<\/a> <a title=\"datingtips\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/datingtips?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#datingtips<\/a> <a title=\"datingadvice\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/datingadvice?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#datingadvice<\/a> <a title=\"manifestlove\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/manifestlove?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#manifestlove<\/a> <a title=\"feminineenergy\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/feminineenergy?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#feminineenergy<\/a> <\/p>\n<p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - Valerie | Dating Coach\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7661789272625711903?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c original sound &#8211; Valerie | Dating Coach<\/a> <\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<br \/>\n<center><\/p>\n<p>Tap Video and \ud83d\udd08 To Unmute<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@thevalerieadams\/video\/7661789273116495135\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Tiktok <\/a> Credits <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@thevalerieadams\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p><center\/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tap Video and \ud83d\udd08 To Unmute Tiktok Credits<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":81075,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[31],"tags":[3925,752,861,525,3034,2560,4136,274],"class_list":["post-81073","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-people-tips","tag-amazing","tag-date","tag-dating-tips-for-women","tag-dont","tag-is","tag-secure","tag-thevalerieadams","tag-women","wpcat-31-id"],"brizy_media":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81073","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=81073"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81073\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/81075"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=81073"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=81073"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=81073"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}