{"id":80976,"date":"2026-08-31T12:17:10","date_gmt":"2026-08-31T04:17:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=80976"},"modified":"2026-08-31T12:17:10","modified_gmt":"2026-08-31T04:17:10","slug":"thevalerieadams-3-things-a-secure-woman-will-do-if-the-guy-shes-dating-gets-in","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=80976","title":{"rendered":"@thevalerieadams 3 things a secure woman will do if the guy she\u2019s dating gets in…"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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3 things a secure woman will do if the guy she\u2019s dating gets inconsistent \u2935\ufe0f These help her weed out men who aren\u2019t relationship material and attract a man she can have longterm compatibility with 1\ufe0f\u20e3 She deeply understands that a man\u2019s inability to show up consistently or have clear communication ISN\u2019T a reflection of her value. She\u2019s not making his behavior mean something bad about HER\u2026AND if the situation is triggering her, she knows it\u2019s an opportunity to use her tools to help her shift back to a more secure and empowered place 2\ufe0f\u20e3 She notices if she\u2019s having any energy leaks and re-directs that energy back to her If she finds herself ruminating, replaying past conversations, overly talking about the situation with her friends and seeking comfort or advice\u2026 She knows it\u2019s a sign that she needs to focus her energy BACK from worrying about his behavior and back on herself and getting to a solid place within. During this time she\u2019s leaning into self-care & doing the inner work to help get herself back to a confident place. She\u2019s leaning into her tools to take her from feeling anxious to secure. 3\ufe0f\u20e3 She uses this time of uncertainty to evaluate if they are actually COMPATIBLE for a potential longterm, healthy relationship Because she\u2019s done the work to create a compatibility plan (I teach you this process inside of Securely Chosen course btw\ud83d\ude0d) she knows the specific characteristics, behaviors, and communication patterns will be a match for a fulfilling relationship. This gap in consistency can reveal a lot to her if she chooses to look at it To become a woman who is secure through all the stages of dating & in-between moments, one of the most important things to do is: Make sure you are clear on your standards, boundaries, and who you\u2019re compatible with longterm \ud83d\udc8e You want to be sure you are investing your time in the right people who you could actually have a healthy relationship with. If you want the tools, processes, & guidance to go from anxious to secure in dating so you can attract your dream relationship \u2935\ufe0f This is what I guide you through inside of the SECURELY CHOSEN COURSE\ud83c\udf39\ud83d\udcbb Get instant access to 20 powerful pre-recorded trainings, processes, tools and workbooks to help you become the most secure version of yourself from the inside-out and attract a healthy relationship Get started with the SECURELY CHOSEN COURSE at the top of my page \u2764\ufe0f . . . #dating<\/a> #datingtips<\/a> #datingadvice<\/a> #manifestlove<\/a> #feminineenergy<\/a> <\/p>\n

\u266c original sound – Valerie | Dating Coach<\/a> <\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n