{"id":80400,"date":"2026-08-29T06:26:49","date_gmt":"2026-08-28T22:26:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=80400"},"modified":"2026-08-29T06:26:49","modified_gmt":"2026-08-28T22:26:49","slug":"man-scolded-for-not-giving-up-priority-seat-on-bus-he-has-unseen-disability","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=80400","title":{"rendered":"Man scolded for not giving up priority seat on bus, he has unseen disability"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div xmlns:default=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\">\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">A 33-year-old man hopes his experience on a bus will remind commuters that not every disability is immediately visible.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Stomper <strong class=\"font-primary\">Billy<\/strong>, who says he has a weakness in his left leg after suffering a stroke two years ago, said he was berated by a woman for <a class=\"text-primary-brand no-underline hover:underline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.stomp.sg\/trending-now\/aggressive-commuter-hurls-vulgarities-younger-man-over-priority-seat-mrt-fk-you-everybody-see-you?ref=inline-article-9583877\" target=\"_blank\" data-discover=\"true\" rel=\"noopener\">not giving up his priority seat<\/a> to an elderly man on Aug 27.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">The incident occurred on bus service 8 at about 7.55am, shortly after the bus left Toa Payoh interchange for Tampines.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Billy told Stomp that he suffered complications from both leukaemia and a stroke when he was 31.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Despite being cancer-free, Billy claims he continues to experience weakness in his left leg and has a foot drop, which affects his ability to walk.<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"my-lg md:my-xl\">\n<p><hr class=\"flex-1 border-grayscale-100 lg:hidden\"\/><span class=\"text-grayscale-400 text-14 leading-16 font-primary text-center lg:text-left p-sm\">Scroll to continue reading<\/span><\/p>\n<hr class=\"flex-1 border-grayscale-100 my-md\"\/>\n<hr class=\"my-md border-grayscale-100\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cOn the outside, I look like a normal man, but I walk with a foot drop,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">He explained that he uses <a class=\"text-primary-brand no-underline hover:underline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.stomp.sg\/stomping-ground\/man-advocates-universal-priority-seating-encourage-communal-care-mrt?ref=inline-article-9583877\" target=\"_blank\" data-discover=\"true\" rel=\"noopener\">priority seats<\/a> because his condition can make it difficult for him to stand or maintain his balance on a moving bus.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"lg:text-28 lg:leading-33.6px pt-md font-primary text-24 font-bold leading-1.2\">Woman allegedly tells him he is young and should stand<\/h2>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">According to the Stomper, a woman approached him and asked him to give up his seat to an elderly man.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">He said he explained that he needed the seat because of his leg weakness, but claimed the woman refused to accept his explanation.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cShe started to scold me and said that I am young and I should just stand and give up my seat,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cShe then started to take photos of me, so in retaliation, I took videos of her.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">In videos he shared, the pair can be heard arguing as other commuters stand around them on the crowded bus.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">At one point, the woman calls Billy an \u201cidiot\u201d and tells him: \u201cMake sure you viral.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">She then appears to strike his phone while he is recording her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Billy can be heard responding: \u201cSee, assault.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">The woman subsequently tells him to \u201ccome out\u201d, which Billy said was a challenge for him to alight from the bus and \u201csettle\u201d the dispute with her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">She can also be heard hurling vulgarities at him before the video ends.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Billy said she eventually alighted a few stops later.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">He added that the bus captain did not intervene, but believes the bus was too crowded for the captain to notice what was happening.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Billy made an online police report after the incident.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">The police confirmed with Stomp that a report was lodged and that they are looking into the matter.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"lg:text-28 lg:leading-33.6px pt-md font-primary text-24 font-bold leading-1.2\">Why more awareness is needed for invisible disabilities<\/h2>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">The Land Transport Authority (LTA) has previously highlighted that not all health conditions or disabilities are visible.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Under its <a class=\"text-primary-brand no-underline hover:underline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.caringcommuters.gov.sg\/our-initiatives\/helping-hand-cards\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Helping Hand scheme<\/a>, commuters with invisible conditions who require a seat can obtain a \u201cMay I have a seat please\u201d card to alert fellow commuters that they need one.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">In a September 2025 <a class=\"text-primary-brand no-underline hover:underline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mot.gov.sg\/news-resources\/newsroom\/written-reply-to-parliamentary-question-on-policy-actions-and-plans-to-ensure-priority-seating-for-elderly-and-disabled-on-public-transport\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">parliamentary reply<\/a> on priority seating, the Ministry of Transport (MOT) also noted that besides the elderly and persons with disabilities, other commuters may need a seat because of invisible medical conditions.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">MOT said its approach was not to legislate for every scenario, but to build a caring commuter culture that supports a wide range of needs.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">LTA has also <a class=\"text-primary-brand no-underline hover:underline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.lta.gov.sg\/content\/ltagov\/en\/newsroom\/2020\/1\/news-releases\/Factsheet_Bus_passenger_safety_campaign.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">advised commuters with mobility needs<\/a> to remain seated while a bus is moving as part of its bus passenger safety campaign.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"lg:text-28 lg:leading-33.6px pt-md font-primary text-24 font-bold leading-1.2\">\u2018People shouldn\u2019t judge\u2019<\/h2>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Billy said this was not the first time his condition had led to questions over his use of a priority seat.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">On a previous occasion, a mother asked him to give up his seat to her child.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">He did so as he was getting off at the next stop.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">However, he hopes sharing his latest experience can raise awareness of people living with disabilities or medical conditions that may not be immediately apparent to others.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cI think people shouldn\u2019t judge someone on the priority seat just because they look healthy, young or able,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-primary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cI hope this can help bring more awareness to people with \u2018invisible disabilities\u2019 like me.\u201d<\/p>\n<hr class=\"bg-primary-100 h-px border-0 mt-lg md:mt-xxl\"\/>\n<div class=\"flex flex-col gap-xl rounded-xl border border-primary-100 mt-lg md:mt-xxl\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.stomp.sg\/assets\/stomp-comment-COLiWNMD.png\" alt=\"Stomp Comment\" class=\"absolute -mt-lg -ml-xs w-[203px] md:w-[255px]\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Have something to say? 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