A verbal spat between two groups of golfers \u2014 purportedly involving two men from Singapore and a group of Vietnamese women \u2013 turned ugly, with insults flying as a course marshal tried to intervene.<\/p>\n
A 43-second clip posted by The SG Daily on Aug 15 shows one man telling a woman to stop shouting<\/a>, while the woman shouts at him to stop pointing his finger at her.<\/p>\n \u201cWhat do you mean by show finger? I asked you to stop shouting,\u201d the man retorts.<\/p>\n \u201cStop, stop show finger to my face,\u201d the woman replies.<\/p>\n \u201cYou want me to show the middle finger?\u201d the man asks.<\/p>\n A man whom we later learn is a course marshal stands next to the arguing pair as another man appears and says: \u201cWait, wait, wait, I tell the marshal what happened first, OK?\u201d<\/p>\n But the quarrelling pair continue, trading insults in English and Hokkien. The man calls the woman a \u201cslut\u201d while she calls him an \u201cah kua\u201d \u2014 a derogatory colloquial term typically used to refer to an effeminate man or a transgender).<\/p>\n At least one other woman can be heard joining the argument, while the second man makes another attempt to explain what happened to the marshal before the reel ends.<\/p>\n The video, with the in-screen title, \u201cGolf dispute between S\u2019porean uncle and Vietnamese women escalates into heated confrontation\u201d, has since attracted more than 1.2 million views and thousands of reactions and comments across Instagram and Facebook<\/a>.<\/p>\n The incident was first shared in the Complaint Singapore Facebook group, but the post has since been taken down.<\/p>\n In response to Stomp\u2019s queries, the original poster, who had shared screenshots of the incident in her own account<\/a>, said the dispute occurred on Aug 14 at Ponderosa Golf and Country Resort in Johor Bahru and began at the first hole.<\/p>\n She said her group included her son, who teed off after their caddy confirmed that it was safe to do so.<\/p>\n PHOTO: FACEBOOK<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n According to her, his ball landed behind the two men ahead of them, but the man in blue allegedly walked back, picked up the ball and threw it away.<\/p>\n The group initially did not confront him.<\/p>\n She said their caddy later again confirmed that it was safe to tee off, after which her friend took her shot. However, the same man allegedly picked up her friend\u2019s ball and threw it away as well.<\/p>\n After that, the two men \u201cdrive buggy (to) come find us\u201d, leading to the confrontation seen in the video.<\/p>\n When asked how she knew the men were from Singapore, the woman said they were driving a car with a Singapore-registered licence plate.<\/p>\n A commenter on The SG Daily\u2019s Instagram post, who claimed she was part of the same group, provided further details about the confrontation in remarks that have since been removed.<\/p>\n She alleged that one of the men shouted and pointed in her friend\u2019s face, while the other challenged the group to a fight. The men also allegedly threatened to have them banned from the golf course.<\/p>\n According to her, her friend raised her voice and pointed back only after the men allegedly threw away two balls, including one belonging to the 11-year-old boy, and confronted the group aggressively.<\/p>\n \u201cIf they believed our shots were unsafe, they could have spoken to the caddy or called the marshal. There was absolutely no reason for two grown men to intimidate a group of women and a child,\u201d she wrote.<\/p>\n \u201cTheir behaviour was completely unnecessary and unacceptable.\u201d<\/p>\n In a later comment, she said both groups continued playing after the scenes in the video.<\/p>\n Stomp has contacted the resort for more information.<\/p>\n Netizens seemed appalled by the behaviour of the golfers<\/a> in the video, with opinion divided over who was at fault.<\/p>\n One said: \u201cFight with a woman (and) you deserve to be called whatever she said.\u201d<\/p>\n The woman in video was not spared criticism either, with one netizen saying: \u201cThe Vietnamese women obviously have no manners, no class.\u201d<\/p>\n Many, however, felt neither side came out looking particularly good.<\/p>\n \u201cProof that money cannot buy class,\u201d said one netizen.<\/p>\n \u201cAlthough golf is often labeled as \u2018high-end,\u2019 \u2018health-conscious\u2019 or \u2018gentlemanly\u2019, the sport itself cannot filter or change a person\u2019s basic qualities,\u201d another said.<\/p>\n One commenter offered a more measured take, saying disagreements over pace of play or a ball landing near another group could happen on any golf course<\/a>.<\/p>\n \u201cWhat really matters is how people handle the situation and communicate with each other,\u201d the user said, adding that any concerns could have been raised with the caddy or course marshal instead of someone picking up and throwing away another player\u2019s ball.<\/p>\n Another added: \u201cChill… It is just a game of golf.\u201d<\/p>\n A number of commenters saw the funny side of the altercation.<\/p>\n \u201cLegend has it that the man in the blue shirt is still trying to explain the facts,\u201d joked one, referring to the man\u2019s repeated attempts to tell the marshal what had happened.<\/p>\n \u201cSounds like a duck and chicken are having an argument,\u201d quipped another.<\/p>\n Some Malaysian commenters apparently had enough of both sides.<\/p>\n \u201cWe have enough problems! Both of you go back to your countries and fight, please,\u201d said one.<\/p>\n Additional reporting by Lo Jun An<\/em><\/p>\n Have something to say? Join in!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n Explore more on these topics<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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