A woman who was conned out of more than $930,000 by a man posing as a widower says the scam nearly destroyed her relationship with her daughter.<\/p>\n
The woman, who declined to be named, broke down in tears as she recounted to Shin Min Daily News how she had lent money intended for her daughter\u2019s overseas university education to the man she believed she would marry.<\/p>\n
Unable to pay the tuition fees after losing her savings, she had to take out bank loans so her daughter could complete her studies.<\/p>\n
Earlier reports said Jiang Junyi (transliterated), a 57-year-old married fruit seller, was jailed for three years and seven months after cheating the woman<\/a>, who is in her fifties, of more than $930,000.<\/p>\n He also admitted to stealing gold jewellery belonging to the victim\u2019s sister and pawning it.<\/p>\n Speaking to Shin Min, the woman said she had been divorced for about 20 years and met Jiang online<\/a> in October 2020.<\/p>\n He was the first man she dated after her divorce.<\/p>\n According to the woman, Jiang introduced himself as an administrative director at a company and claimed that his wife had died from illness, leaving him to raise their 10-year-old son.<\/p>\n Believing his story, she dated him for more than a year. She said he stayed at her home on weekdays and told her he returned to his own home on weekends to spend time with his son.<\/p>\n During their relationship, Jiang allegedly asked to borrow money on numerous occasions<\/a>, claiming he needed funds because he had become a loan guarantor, his company required cash flow or he had been hospitalised.<\/p>\n The woman said she trusted him completely.<\/p>\n \u201cHe even showed me his bank account, which had money inside,\u201d she told Shin Min. \u201cHe said the account had been frozen because he was a guarantor.\u201d<\/p>\n She ended up lending him money that had been set aside for her daughter\u2019s university fees.<\/p>\n Her elder sister also lent Jiang money that had been saved for her child\u2019s wedding banquet, she added.<\/p>\n The woman said losing the money meant she could no longer afford her daughter\u2019s overseas education.<\/p>\n \u201cMy daughter\u2019s university fees alone came up to a six-figure sum every year,\u201d she told Shin Min, adding that their relationship became strained.<\/p>\n She said she struggled to eat or sleep after discovering the truth and relied on sleeping pills for about two months.<\/p>\n She also admitted she had suicidal thoughts, but persevered because of her daughter.<\/p>\n Fighting back tears, she said she eventually took out bank loans so her daughter could finish university and return to Singapore.<\/p>\n Only later did her daughter tell her that she, too, had contemplated taking her own life during that difficult period.<\/p>\n \u201cMy heart broke when I heard that,\u201d the woman said. \u201cIf I had never met this man…\u201d<\/p>\n Although six years have passed, she said she has never truly recovered from the ordeal.<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019ve become stronger for my daughter, but I no longer dare to trust relationships,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n \u201cThis experience taught me to judge people more carefully and not to help others so readily.\u201d<\/p>\n The woman said Jiang appeared well-mannered and respectable, earning the trust of both her family and daughter.<\/p>\n \u201cHe described his wife\u2019s treatment and even her funeral in detail,\u201d she told Shin Min.<\/p>\n She said she had spoken to the boy Jiang claimed was his son, bought gifts for him, helped him with maths homework and even exchanged text messages and letters with him.<\/p>\n After realising she had been cheated, the woman checked Jiang\u2019s marital records and later went to his condominium.<\/p>\n There, she was shocked to discover that the wife Jiang claimed had died was actually alive.<\/p>\n \u201cThat\u2019s when I realised I had become \u2018the other woman\u2019,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n \u201cI was very disappointed. He has never apologised.\u201d<\/p>\n The woman said the couple had even discussed marriage.<\/p>\n At one point, Jiang allegedly took her gold jewellery, claiming he needed it to compare sizes before buying a \u201cfour points gold\u201d set \u2014 a traditional Chinese bridal gift set \u2014 for her.<\/p>\n Despite repeatedly asking for it back, she never recovered it.<\/p>\n She also said she had entrusted Jiang with her Rolex watch after he offered to send it for servicing together with one of his own luxury watches.<\/p>\n More than a year later, she still had not got it back.<\/p>\n According to Shin Min, the turning point came when Jiang sent her a photograph claiming a colleague had been involved in a traffic accident, supposedly explaining why he could not return the watch.<\/p>\n The woman said she searched for the image online and discovered it was fake.<\/p>\n Realising she had been deceived, she immediately lodged a police report.<\/p>\n She and her sister then checked their home and discovered that more gold jewellery had gone missing.<\/p>\n The woman also told Shin Min she spent more than $7,000 on legal fees trying to recover her losses, but ultimately received only $2,000.<\/p>\n Have something to say? Join in!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n Explore more on these topics<\/p>\n<\/div>\n See something interesting? Contribute<\/a> your story to us.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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Had to borrow from bank to pay daughter\u2019s fees<\/h2>\n
Discovered his \u2018late wife\u2019 was still alive<\/h2>\n
Fake accident photo exposed lies<\/h2>\n
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