{"id":73377,"date":"2026-08-01T12:09:59","date_gmt":"2026-08-01T04:09:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=73377"},"modified":"2026-08-01T12:09:59","modified_gmt":"2026-08-01T04:09:59","slug":"spore-nurses-setting-aside-personal-fatigue-and-emotional-distress-to-focus-on-patients","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=73377","title":{"rendered":"S\u2019pore nurses: Setting aside personal fatigue and emotional distress to focus on patients"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">SINGAPORE \u2013 <!-- -->Different paths, same purpose \u2013 four individuals share a commitment to caring for others.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Jasmine Tan had a brush with death when she was diagnosed with Stage 3 colorectal cancer. That was when the former engineer decided to make a mid-career switch. Twenty years on, she leads a wound care team.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">As the eldest child, Cheryl O. Pia Mandadero places others before herself \u2013 her parents, her patients and her son. She left her home in the Philippines 18 years ago to eke out a better life for her family. Today, she has taken on greater clinical responsibilities.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Service comes first for Tan Min Kai. He enlisted as a combat medic to serve his country before becoming a flight steward seven years later. But when the Covid-19 pandemic hit, Tan found himself volunteering as a care ambassador at a public hospital. He never left.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Neo Kok Ern\u2019s mother has schizophrenia, which relapses every two to three years.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">To better understand the condition and its management, he became a nurse.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">These nurses exemplify the compassion and hard work the profession demands.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">For them, nursing is more than a job \u2013 it is a calling and a passion.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Singapore marks Nurses\u2019 Day on Aug 1, an annual occasion to recognise the contributions of nurses to the healthcare system.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">According to the Ministry of Health (MOH), there were <!-- -->50,389<!-- --> nurses and registered midwives in Singapore in 2024. <!-- -->This includes those employed in the public sector and in private practice, as well as those not in active practice.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"font-primary-headline-md-semibold\" data-testid=\"article-subhead-test-id\">Jasmine Tan: Healing beyond the wound<\/h2>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">A persistent pain in her abdomen and irregular bowel movements prompted Tan to see a doctor in 2001.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cThe X-ray the doctor sent me for showed some blockages. I underwent surgery, and that was when I was diagnosed with Stage 3 (colorectal) cancer<!-- -->. I had to have the cancerous parts and 15 lymph nodes removed<!-- -->,\u201d the 58-year-old said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">She underwent six months of chemotherapy, during which she decided she wanted to make a difference.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cI saw an MOH advertisement in The Straits Times calling for people to make a mid-career switch to nursing. Inspired by the nurses who took care of me, I wanted to make the switch.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"landscape inline-media-wrapper\" data-testid=\"inline-media-test-id\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-col items-start relative w-fit\"><picture><source media=\"(max-width: 480px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/3ee416a46b03b2320596d00d483370bd3ade92d569a15edc15bacbb28eef6a42?w=480\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 720px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/3ee416a46b03b2320596d00d483370bd3ade92d569a15edc15bacbb28eef6a42?w=720\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 721px and max-width: 3999px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/3ee416a46b03b2320596d00d483370bd3ade92d569a15edc15bacbb28eef6a42?w=900\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 4000px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/3ee416a46b03b2320596d00d483370bd3ade92d569a15edc15bacbb28eef6a42\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/3ee416a46b03b2320596d00d483370bd3ade92d569a15edc15bacbb28eef6a42\" alt=\"Over the past 20 years, Jasmine Tan, who now leads a wound care team, has cared for patients with wounds caused by pressure sores or resulting from diabetes.\" class=\"aspect-landscape flex items-start shrink-0 object-cover landscape article-landscape mobile:w-auto tablet:w-auto\" data-testid=\"image-test-id\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><\/picture><\/div><figcaption class=\"mobile:mx-16 tablet:mx-00 pt-08 pb-16\">\n<p class=\"inline text-secondary font-secondary-captions-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"inline-media-caption-test-id\">Over the past 20 years, Jasmine Tan, who now leads a wound care team, has cared for patients with wounds caused by pressure sores or resulting from diabetes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"inline text-tertiary font-secondary-captions-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"inline-media-credit-test-id\"> <!-- -->ST PHOTO: NG SOR LUAN<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Tan waited until she was given the all-clear after five years before applying to Nanyang Polytechnic (NYP) in 2006. She was accepted into its accelerated diploma in nursing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">She graduated two years later and joined St Luke\u2019s Hospital, where she was promoted every two years and also went on to earn an advanced diploma and a degree in nursing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Tan, who is now a nurse manager, is particularly interested in wound management. Over the past 20 years, she has tended to patients with wounds caused by pressure sores or resulting from diabetes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cCaring for a patient\u2019s wound is not just about treating the  condition, but caring for the person. They need to be comfortable and, as nurses, we need to be mindful of their dignity and overall well-being,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Her most memorable case was that of 56-year-old Tan Lay Kiot, whose pimple-like\u00a0patch with a black spot\u00a0on\u00a0her upper back developed into a large infected carbuncle<!-- --> \u2013 a red, swollen and painful cluster of connected skin boils<!-- -->.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cShe had surgery to remove the infected tissue but developed septic shock. Being newly diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes, she also developed complications,\u201d Tan said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">The patient was transferred to St Luke\u2019s Hospital in March 2025 and came under the care of Tan and her team.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"portrait inline-media-wrapper\" style=\"--aspect-article-portrait:1140 \/ 1425\" data-testid=\"inline-media-test-id\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-col items-start relative w-fit\"><picture><source media=\"(max-width: 480px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/fb8ff35867a12600430099c6e72ebf20a65e0b3ef7a1e6a4bf407504c77dcce2?w=480\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 720px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/fb8ff35867a12600430099c6e72ebf20a65e0b3ef7a1e6a4bf407504c77dcce2?w=720\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 721px and max-width: 3999px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/fb8ff35867a12600430099c6e72ebf20a65e0b3ef7a1e6a4bf407504c77dcce2?w=900\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 4000px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/fb8ff35867a12600430099c6e72ebf20a65e0b3ef7a1e6a4bf407504c77dcce2\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/fb8ff35867a12600430099c6e72ebf20a65e0b3ef7a1e6a4bf407504c77dcce2\" alt=\"A pimple-like patch on the back of patient Tan Lay Kiot developed into a severe infection, but under the care of Jasmine Tan and her team of nurses, the wound shrank and showed no signs of infection within six months.\" class=\"aspect-portrait flex items-start shrink-0 portrait article-portrait object-contain mobile:w-auto tablet:w-auto\" data-testid=\"image-test-id\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><\/picture><\/div><figcaption class=\"mobile:mx-16 tablet:mx-00 pt-08 pb-16\">\n<p class=\"inline text-secondary font-secondary-captions-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"inline-media-caption-test-id\">A pimple-like patch on the back of patient Tan Lay Kiot developed into a severe infection, but under the care of Jasmine Tan and her team of nurses, the wound shrank and showed no signs of infection within six months.<\/p>\n<p class=\"inline text-tertiary font-secondary-captions-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"inline-media-credit-test-id\"> <!-- -->PHOTO: ST LUKE\u2019S HOSPITAL<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Although the wound took longer to heal (compared with surgery), Tan said: \u201cWe managed to reduce her extensive wound, which measured 31.1cm by 39.5cm, to just 1.2cm by 2.1cm with no signs of infection in just six months.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"font-primary-headline-md-semibold\" data-testid=\"article-subhead-test-id\">Cheryl O. Pia Mandadero: Putting others first<\/h2>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">At work, assistant nurse clinician Mandadero, 43, was all smiles.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cI keep a happy demeanour because working in the obstetrics and gynaecology ward, witnessing life beginning as women gave birth, is supposed to be a happy occasion,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"landscape inline-media-wrapper\" data-testid=\"inline-media-test-id\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-col items-start relative w-fit\"><picture><source media=\"(max-width: 480px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/67581f5b3f41cc165e8ea05fcfb01610e87035c587c988705b3d5823b9b34979?w=480\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 720px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/67581f5b3f41cc165e8ea05fcfb01610e87035c587c988705b3d5823b9b34979?w=720\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 721px and max-width: 3999px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/67581f5b3f41cc165e8ea05fcfb01610e87035c587c988705b3d5823b9b34979?w=900\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 4000px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/67581f5b3f41cc165e8ea05fcfb01610e87035c587c988705b3d5823b9b34979\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/67581f5b3f41cc165e8ea05fcfb01610e87035c587c988705b3d5823b9b34979\" alt=\"Cheryl O. Pia Mandadero says the support she received from nursing leaders at NUH helped her through some of life\u2019s toughest moments.\" class=\"aspect-landscape flex items-start shrink-0 object-cover landscape article-landscape mobile:w-auto tablet:w-auto\" data-testid=\"image-test-id\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><\/picture><\/div><figcaption class=\"mobile:mx-16 tablet:mx-00 pt-08 pb-16\">\n<p class=\"inline text-secondary font-secondary-captions-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"inline-media-caption-test-id\">Cheryl O. Pia Mandadero says the support she received from nursing leaders at NUH helped her through some of life\u2019s toughest moments.<\/p>\n<p class=\"inline text-tertiary font-secondary-captions-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"inline-media-credit-test-id\"> <!-- -->ST PHOTO: BRIAN TEO<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cI let my emotions take over only when I am back home alone in my room. That\u2019s when I cry,\u201d she told ST,  recounting how her relationship with her son\u2019s father broke down seven years ago after she returned to the Philippines to give birth.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Like many nurses, Mandadero of National University Hospital (NUH) keeps her private life separate from her profession.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">She came to Singapore from Iloilo <!-- -->18 years ago<!-- --> as an enrolled nurse to support her family financially. It was a big decision, as her father was still recovering from a serious accident that fractured his spine in 2006, while her mother had just undergone cataract surgery.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cI am the eldest daughter and a trained nurse, and that made it difficult \u2013 whether I should stay to take care of them or leave to provide financial stability and better long-term care, especially for my father,\u201d Mandadero said, her eyes brimming.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">The decision to come to Singapore was one she said she had never regretted.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Professionally, she advanced from enrolled nurse to staff nurse within two years and then progressed to assistant nurse clinician, providing specialised care for complex cases and leading teams of junior nurses.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">She also helps with quality improvement in the department and conducts clinical training in the wards.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Mandadero became a single mother in 2020 after returning home to give birth because she did not have the support to raise her baby in Singapore. While she was there, her relationship with her son\u2019s father fell apart.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cIt was hard after coming back because it was during the Covid-19 pandemic and I could not return to see my family or visit my son. I missed out on his milestones and birthdays,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cBeing an introvert, I found it hard to confide in my nurse managers and supervisors, so I put up a brave front and carried out my work,\u201d she added.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">It was after her nursing leaders found out about her situation that they gradually coaxed Mandadero to open up and ask for help.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cI am glad they did,\u201d she beamed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cI was applying for permanent residency here for myself and my son, and because of their help and that of higher management, my application came through.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cI am now able to enrol my son in a Singapore school so he would have a better future.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"font-primary-headline-md-semibold\" data-testid=\"article-subhead-test-id\">Tan Min Kai: From serving country to serving people<\/h2>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">In his career, Tan, 37, has worn three different uniforms.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cI enlisted in the Singapore Armed Forces as a full-time combat medic before becoming a steward with Singapore Airlines,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cNow I am a staff nurse at Khoo Teck Puat Hospital.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Interestingly, Tan had always wanted to work in healthcare.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"landscape inline-media-wrapper\" data-testid=\"inline-media-test-id\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-col items-start relative w-fit\"><picture><source media=\"(max-width: 480px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/874654e904221568b2cdae4a52d28fa30fa69b363e29bd6f2b71846546874e2a?w=480\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 720px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/874654e904221568b2cdae4a52d28fa30fa69b363e29bd6f2b71846546874e2a?w=720\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 721px and max-width: 3999px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/874654e904221568b2cdae4a52d28fa30fa69b363e29bd6f2b71846546874e2a?w=900\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 4000px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/874654e904221568b2cdae4a52d28fa30fa69b363e29bd6f2b71846546874e2a\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/874654e904221568b2cdae4a52d28fa30fa69b363e29bd6f2b71846546874e2a\" alt=\"Former flight steward and army combat medic Tan Min Kai, now a staff nurse, updating patient records on a computer on wheels in the ward at Khoo Teck Puat Hospital.\" class=\"aspect-landscape flex items-start shrink-0 object-cover landscape article-landscape mobile:w-auto tablet:w-auto\" data-testid=\"image-test-id\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><\/picture><\/div><figcaption class=\"mobile:mx-16 tablet:mx-00 pt-08 pb-16\">\n<p class=\"inline text-secondary font-secondary-captions-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"inline-media-caption-test-id\">Former flight steward and army combat medic Tan Min Kai, now a staff nurse, updating patient records on a computer on wheels in the ward at Khoo Teck Puat Hospital.<\/p>\n<p class=\"inline text-tertiary font-secondary-captions-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"inline-media-credit-test-id\"> <!-- -->ST PHOTO: MARK CHEONG<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cI wanted to become a paramedic after watching the TV series Ghost Whisperer,\u201d he said. \u201cThe husband of the lead character was a paramedic who saved lives and that inspired me.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cThat was when I thought I could do my national service with SCDF (Singapore Civil Defence Force) but I did not qualify, so I went into the army.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">He enlisted in 2009 as a combat medic and was trained in pre-hospital emergency trauma care, battlefield triage and providing medical coverage during training exercises and operations.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Tan left the service in 2016 after seven years to fly with Singapore Airlines, providing service at 35,000 feet.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Not long after, the Covid-19 pandemic hit and he was grounded as commercial flights to destinations around the world came to a halt.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cThere was a critical manpower shortage at the hospitals, and we were encouraged to volunteer as care ambassadors,\u201d Tan said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cI did, and that reignited my passion to join healthcare.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"landscape inline-media-wrapper\" data-testid=\"inline-media-test-id\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-col items-start relative w-fit\"><picture><source media=\"(max-width: 480px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/2999ce36a5585d9815401cc480c0bf5e8df21f50b606e300895f389ca65f4ee2?w=480\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 720px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/2999ce36a5585d9815401cc480c0bf5e8df21f50b606e300895f389ca65f4ee2?w=720\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 721px and max-width: 3999px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/2999ce36a5585d9815401cc480c0bf5e8df21f50b606e300895f389ca65f4ee2?w=900\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 4000px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/2999ce36a5585d9815401cc480c0bf5e8df21f50b606e300895f389ca65f4ee2\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/2999ce36a5585d9815401cc480c0bf5e8df21f50b606e300895f389ca65f4ee2\" alt=\"Tan Min Kai with his mother, (left) signed on as a combat medic with the Singapore Armed Forces in 2009. Tan Min Kai joined Singapore Airlines as a steward (right) in 2016, a job he held until the Covid-19 pandemic hit.\" class=\"aspect-landscape flex items-start shrink-0 object-cover landscape article-landscape mobile:w-auto tablet:w-auto\" data-testid=\"image-test-id\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><\/picture><\/div><figcaption class=\"mobile:mx-16 tablet:mx-00 pt-08 pb-16\">\n<p class=\"inline text-secondary font-secondary-captions-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"inline-media-caption-test-id\">Tan Min Kai, seen here with his mother, signed on as a combat medic with the Singapore Armed Forces in 2009. He joined Singapore Airlines as a steward in 2016, a job he held until the Covid-19 pandemic hit.<\/p>\n<p class=\"inline text-tertiary font-secondary-captions-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"inline-media-credit-test-id\"> <!-- -->PHOTOS: COURTESY OF TAN MIN KAI<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">His wings were clipped then, and while his former colleagues returned to the skies, he went back to school.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cI enrolled in the Alice Lee Centre for Nursing Studies (at the National University of Singapore),\u201d he recalled, \u201cand did a two-year degree before joining KTPH full time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Today, Tan brings what he learnt in the Singapore Armed Forces and Singapore Airlines to caring for his patients with compassion and dignity.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cI am very invested in the next generation, just as my seniors were with me,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cI will do my best to mentor my younger colleagues and help build the confidence that will carry them forward in the profession.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"font-primary-headline-md-semibold\" data-testid=\"article-subhead-test-id\">Neo Kok Ern: Escaping poverty with parents in tow<\/h2>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Having grown up in one-room rental flats in Redhill with a mother who suffers from schizophrenia, Neo Kok Ern, 36, was determined to \u201cget a job with a steady income to break away from childhood poverty\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cI also wanted to learn how to care for my mother. Her schizophrenia relapsed every two to three years, sometimes so bad that she would make noises at night, which affected my sleep,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">That was when he found out that nursing was \u201cquite an iron rice bowl\u201d and would help him understand illness management and prevention, so his family could avoid frequent hospital visits and save on medical expenses.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Unsure that he would pass the course, Neo skipped sponsorship. Instead, he worked at a tea shop to earn his keep.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">But he could not earn enough for his second year of tuition. So he bit the bullet and applied for a National Heart Centre Singapore sponsorship. The move paid off.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Neo graduated from NYP without having to retake any exam, something he said he had never dreamed of achieving.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Life took a positive turn after he graduated. Today, the senior staff nurse supervises his juniors and helps manage the ward.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Being able to speak several Chinese dialects, such as Hokkien and Cantonese, has also put Neo in good stead.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"landscape inline-media-wrapper\" data-testid=\"inline-media-test-id\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-col items-start relative w-fit\"><picture><source media=\"(max-width: 480px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/2e130bda50620fc629d2b7ab42f31da66aa66d4c945f560878fc9e3f96cd488a?w=480\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 720px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/2e130bda50620fc629d2b7ab42f31da66aa66d4c945f560878fc9e3f96cd488a?w=720\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 721px and max-width: 3999px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/2e130bda50620fc629d2b7ab42f31da66aa66d4c945f560878fc9e3f96cd488a?w=900\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 4000px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/2e130bda50620fc629d2b7ab42f31da66aa66d4c945f560878fc9e3f96cd488a\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/2e130bda50620fc629d2b7ab42f31da66aa66d4c945f560878fc9e3f96cd488a\" alt=\"Neo Kok Ern wanted to become a nurse so he could better understand disease prevention and management, hoping the knowledge would help his family stay healthier and reduce trips to the hospital.\" class=\"aspect-landscape flex items-start shrink-0 object-cover landscape article-landscape mobile:w-auto tablet:w-auto\" data-testid=\"image-test-id\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><\/picture><\/div><figcaption class=\"mobile:mx-16 tablet:mx-00 pt-08 pb-16\">\n<p class=\"inline text-secondary font-secondary-captions-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"inline-media-caption-test-id\">Neo Kok Ern wanted to become a nurse so he could better understand disease prevention and management, hoping the knowledge would help his family stay healthier and reduce trips to the hospital.<\/p>\n<p class=\"inline text-tertiary font-secondary-captions-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"inline-media-credit-test-id\"> <!-- -->ST PHOTO: KUA CHEE SIONG<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cMany of the patients in the ward are elderly<!-- --> <!-- -->and have heart disease. Some were even struggling to breathe. To be able to help them communicate with the doctors was what made me feel proud,\u201d Neo said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Still living with his parents in their rental flat, Neo said his salary had increased the family\u2019s household income so much that they no longer qualify for rental flats and would have to move.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text-primary font-tertiary-body-baseline-regular\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cI never travelled when I was a child and spent my holidays at the playground. I could travel now with my pay, but because I want to give my parents a good home, I am putting the money into a kitty and saving up for my BTO (Build-To-Order) flat,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<center><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.straitstimes.com\/singapore\/health\/spore-nurses-setting-aside-personal-fatigue-and-emotional-distress-to-focus-on-patients\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article At Source <\/a><br \/>\n<center\/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>SINGAPORE \u2013 Different paths, same purpose \u2013 four individuals share a commitment to caring for others. 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