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That said, Mr Wong noted that a \u201cwe first\u201d society is not something the government can force or direct, and will be up to Singaporeans to decide.<\/p>\n
Regardless of what makes the headlines, most Singaporeans would support efforts to strengthen our social fabric. Most will say that we value graciousness, neighbourliness and helping others. But if we think most people will not act that way, many of us will hesitate to do so ourselves.<\/p>\n
This \u201cme first\u201d thinking is easy to see on our daily commute. When no one moves further into the train, others feel justified in staying put too. When tailgating, not signalling, or speeding up to block another vehicle start to feel normal on our roads, more drivers adapt in a race to the bottom.<\/p>\n
But the reverse is also true \u2013 \u201cwe first\u201d can be the social norm too.<\/p>\n
We shouldn\u2019t need National Day to remind us to be gracious and considerate but as we approach the day where national pride is donned in red and white and celebrated in big ways, let\u2019s take the first small step to show care and concern for others.<\/p>\n
You can set a norm by signalling early, giving way, lifting a hand in thanks, giving up your seat or moving in to allow others to board the train. You can help make consideration and graciousness contagious.<\/p>\n