{"id":71130,"date":"2026-07-24T00:34:01","date_gmt":"2026-07-23T16:34:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=71130"},"modified":"2026-07-24T00:34:01","modified_gmt":"2026-07-23T16:34:01","slug":"anxiouslyalej-overfunctioning-does-not-raise-his-standard-it-becomes-his-basel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=71130","title":{"rendered":"@anxiouslyalej Overfunctioning does not raise his standard, it becomes his basel&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@anxiouslyalej\/video\/7664803739236158740\" data-video-id=\"7664803739236158740\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\">\n<section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@anxiouslyalej\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@anxiouslyalej?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">@anxiouslyalej<\/a> <\/p>\n<p>Overfunctioning does not raise his standard, it becomes his baseline, and the version of the relationship you accept today as it stands is the version he believes you are satisfied with.  Effort is not what inspires a man to give you more standards, boundaries and guaranteed consequences are. <a title=\"womensdatingadvice\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/womensdatingadvice?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#womensdatingadvice<\/a> <a title=\"relationships\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/relationships?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#relationships<\/a> <a title=\"datingadvice\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/datingadvice?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#datingadvice<\/a> <a title=\"datingforwomen\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/datingforwomen?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#datingforwomen<\/a> <a title=\"avoidantattachment\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/avoidantattachment?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#avoidantattachment<\/a> <\/p>\n<p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - Alejandra Maria\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7664803885827181330?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c original sound &#8211; Alejandra Maria<\/a> <\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<br \/>\n<center><\/p>\n<p>Tap Video and \ud83d\udd08 To Unmute<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@anxiouslyalej\/video\/7664803739236158740\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Tiktok <\/a> Credits <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@anxiouslyalej\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p><center\/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tap Video and \ud83d\udd08 To Unmute Tiktok Credits<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":71132,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[31],"tags":[1179,15947,861,13444,5640,2926],"class_list":["post-71130","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-people-tips","tag-anxiouslyalej","tag-basel","tag-dating-tips-for-women","tag-overfunctioning","tag-raise","tag-standard","wpcat-31-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71130","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=71130"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71130\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/71132"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=71130"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=71130"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=71130"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}