{"id":69278,"date":"2026-07-16T23:41:04","date_gmt":"2026-07-16T15:41:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=69278"},"modified":"2026-07-16T23:41:04","modified_gmt":"2026-07-16T15:41:04","slug":"trellthetrainer-most-men-arent-taught-how-to-love-were-taught-how-to-perform","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=69278","title":{"rendered":"@trellthetrainer Most men aren\u2019t taught how to love\u2026 we\u2019re taught how to perform&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@trellthetrainer\/video\/7617346830573014303\" data-video-id=\"7617346830573014303\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\">\n<section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@trellthetrainer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@trellthetrainer?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">@trellthetrainer<\/a> <\/p>\n<p>Most men aren\u2019t taught how to love\u2026 we\u2019re taught how to perform. Provide. Be strong. Figure it out alone. But no one really sits us down and explains the emotional side of relationships. The patience. The listening. The reassurance. The discipline it takes to be a man who can lead a relationship without losing himself.<\/p>\n<p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - trellthetrainer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7617346744183622430?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c original sound &#8211; trellthetrainer<\/a> <\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<br \/>\n<center><\/p>\n<p>Tap Video and \ud83d\udd08 To Unmute<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@trellthetrainer\/video\/7617346830573014303\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Tiktok <\/a> Credits <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@trellthetrainer\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p><center\/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tap Video and \ud83d\udd08 To Unmute Tiktok Credits<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":69280,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[31],"tags":[2244,801,772,400,8894,9143,16098],"class_list":["post-69278","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-people-tips","tag-arent","tag-dating-tips-for-men","tag-love","tag-men","tag-perform","tag-taught","tag-trellthetrainer","wpcat-31-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/69278","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=69278"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/69278\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/69280"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=69278"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=69278"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=69278"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}