{"id":62935,"date":"2026-06-23T00:09:54","date_gmt":"2026-06-22T16:09:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=62935"},"modified":"2026-06-23T00:09:54","modified_gmt":"2026-06-22T16:09:54","slug":"death-is-a-norm-for-muslim-undertaker-always-on-standby","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=62935","title":{"rendered":"Death is a \u2018norm\u2019 for Muslim undertaker always on standby"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div xmlns:default=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\">\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\"><em>Think Singapore is just a nation of people working typical corporate jobs? Introducing Stomp\u2019s new original series, Don\u2019t Try This At Work, where we spotlight individuals with risky, exciting, unconventional and even downright terrifying jobs. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>From cleaning up after death to handling bees by hand, the series offers a behind-the-scenes look at occupations most people would never dare to try \u2014 and the people who do them every single day.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Muhammad Amir, 34, has a serious, almost clinical set-up in front of him: a foldable metal bed, an assortment of small items, and white shrouds, as if preparing for a burial.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">The mood in his Woodlands flat, however, is warm. Amir, his wife, and nephew, usher Stomp journalists in for an interview and an educational demonstration of what he does daily as a Muslim undertaker, better known among the Malay community as \u2018pengurus jenazah\u2019.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cAlamak, nervous,\u201d he remarks sheepishly at various points in his interview \u2014 though it\u2019s clear he has no reason to be.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Once the demonstration begins, he confidently explains the purpose of each item laid out on the metal bed: sheets of white cloth, kain batik lepas (a batik cloth), camphor, cotton, perfume and sandalwood powder.<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"my-lg md:my-xl\">\n<p><hr class=\"flex-1 border-grayscale-100 lg:hidden\"\/><span class=\"text-grayscale-400 text-14 leading-16 font-primary text-center lg:text-left p-sm\">Scroll to continue reading<\/span><\/p>\n<hr class=\"flex-1 border-grayscale-100 my-md\"\/>\n<hr class=\"my-md border-grayscale-100\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"article-image-inline mb-md mt-lg flex items-center justify-center\">\n<figure>\n<div class=\"-mx-lg lg:mx-0\"><picture><source media=\"(min-width: 991px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/stomp\/8902d2cc647aff9663e252fcd16b7bb2416485120423e4d6af042628c6f478d5?w=360&amp;f=webp 360w, https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/stomp\/8902d2cc647aff9663e252fcd16b7bb2416485120423e4d6af042628c6f478d5?w=480&amp;f=webp 480w, https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/stomp\/8902d2cc647aff9663e252fcd16b7bb2416485120423e4d6af042628c6f478d5?w=720&amp;f=webp 720w, https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/stomp\/8902d2cc647aff9663e252fcd16b7bb2416485120423e4d6af042628c6f478d5?w=960&amp;f=webp 960w\"\/><source media=\"(max-width: 990px)\" 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bad-src=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/stomp\/8902d2cc647aff9663e252fcd16b7bb2416485120423e4d6af042628c6f478d5?w=960&amp;f=webp\"\/><\/picture><\/div><figcaption>\n<p>Items needed to help Mr Amir prepare a body for burial.<\/p>\n<p>STOMP PHOTO: CHERRY TAN<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">With his nephew Saiful Amir standing in for a dead body \u2014 which led to some good-humoured chuckling between our party of six \u2014 Amir explains, step-by-step, the process of bathing the body and preparing it for burial with dignity.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">He does this methodically, with tremendous calm, that it\u2019s almost hard to believe he\u2019s only six years into this role.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"lg:text-28 lg:leading-33.6px pt-md font-primary text-24 font-bold leading-1.2\">A fateful introduction to his calling<\/h2>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">His interest in the job was piqued almost a decade ago, when his grandmother died in 2017.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Then 23 years of age, he observed the imam leading family members in the prayers and burial process with awe \u2014 and felt a calling.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cI was like, \u2018wow, (being a Muslim undertaker) is an interesting job\u2019,\u201d he recalls.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">His interest was further cemented when he began researching more about the job, soon encountering a post from the owner of a local burial service company, who was looking to hire a full-time imam to assist him on the job.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">He responded with his interest and soon bathed and prepared his first dead body in 2020. He did so under the guidance of his boss, after taking three years to fully transition into his new role as an imam.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cI wanted to serve the <a class=\"text-primary-brand no-underline hover:underline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.stomp.sg\/trending-now\/pulau-ubin-guide-says-identity-attacked-after-alleged-call-investigation-over-muslim-prayer-recital?ref=inline-article-9120932\" target=\"_blank\" data-discover=\"true\" rel=\"noopener\">Malay Muslim community<\/a> and help families during difficult times,\u201d the 34-year-old says, stressing how much giving back really means to him.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"lg:text-28 lg:leading-33.6px pt-md font-primary text-24 font-bold leading-1.2\">Toughest part of the job<\/h2>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cMany are afraid of death but to me, it\u2019s a responsibility,\u201d Amir says solemnly.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Even as he remains <a class=\"text-primary-brand no-underline hover:underline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.stomp.sg\/community-voices\/widowed-48-woman-turns-husbands-ashes-diamond-necklace-so-theres-always-part-him-her?ref=inline-article-9120932\" target=\"_blank\" data-discover=\"true\" rel=\"noopener\">calm in the face of death<\/a>, there are still days when the job feels much more challenging and sad for him.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cAttending to babies or stillborn cases is always the hardest for me emotionally,\u201d Amir tells Stomp.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Beyond how heartbreaking it is for him to bury a life that has ended too soon, there is also a much more personal reason that stillborn and baby deaths affect him so much.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cMe and my wife <a class=\"text-primary-brand no-underline hover:underline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.stomp.sg\/community-voices\/i-was-glad-my-last-pregnancy-was-lost-after-5-miscarriages-and-cancer-diagnosis-sporean-woman-gives?ref=inline-article-9120932\" target=\"_blank\" data-discover=\"true\" rel=\"noopener\">had a baby before, but he passed on<\/a> at five months old (in 2018),\u201d he explains, a wistful note to his voice.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Another particularly challenging day for Amir was when his older colleague died from a heart attack while working alone on a late-night undertaking job in December 2025.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cThe ambulance came, (paramedics) tried to do CPR but sadly, he didn\u2019t survive,\u201d Amir shares.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Amir had to pick up where his colleague had left off until a freelance employee could relieve him. Following that, Amir embarked on the heavy task of preparing his colleague\u2019s body for burial later that morning.<\/p>\n<div class=\"article-image-inline mb-md mt-lg flex items-center justify-center\">\n<figure>\n<div class=\"-mx-lg lg:mx-0\"><picture><source media=\"(min-width: 991px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/stomp\/81f4c4c5ff39466e7e2f9cbdcf91594c7e82df9f73dab013de572b6b816959b3?w=360&amp;f=webp 360w, https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/stomp\/81f4c4c5ff39466e7e2f9cbdcf91594c7e82df9f73dab013de572b6b816959b3?w=480&amp;f=webp 480w, https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/stomp\/81f4c4c5ff39466e7e2f9cbdcf91594c7e82df9f73dab013de572b6b816959b3?w=720&amp;f=webp 720w, https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/stomp\/81f4c4c5ff39466e7e2f9cbdcf91594c7e82df9f73dab013de572b6b816959b3?w=960&amp;f=webp 960w\"\/><source media=\"(max-width: 990px)\" 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https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/stomp\/81f4c4c5ff39466e7e2f9cbdcf91594c7e82df9f73dab013de572b6b816959b3?w=720&amp;f=webp 720w, https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/stomp\/81f4c4c5ff39466e7e2f9cbdcf91594c7e82df9f73dab013de572b6b816959b3?w=960&amp;f=webp 960w\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"mx-auto block max-h-full max-w-full object-contain\" src=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/stomp\/81f4c4c5ff39466e7e2f9cbdcf91594c7e82df9f73dab013de572b6b816959b3?w=360&amp;f=webp 360w, https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/stomp\/81f4c4c5ff39466e7e2f9cbdcf91594c7e82df9f73dab013de572b6b816959b3?w=480&amp;f=webp 480w, https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/stomp\/81f4c4c5ff39466e7e2f9cbdcf91594c7e82df9f73dab013de572b6b816959b3?w=720&amp;f=webp 720w, https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/stomp\/81f4c4c5ff39466e7e2f9cbdcf91594c7e82df9f73dab013de572b6b816959b3?w=960&amp;f=webp 960w\" alt=\"Muslim burial rites\" loading=\"lazy\" bad-src=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/stomp\/81f4c4c5ff39466e7e2f9cbdcf91594c7e82df9f73dab013de572b6b816959b3?w=960&amp;f=webp\"\/><\/picture><\/div><figcaption>\n<p>Performing prayers at a burial.<\/p>\n<p>PHOTO COURTESY OF MUHAMMAD AMIR<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">When asked how he had felt about his colleague\u2019s death, Amir appears to struggle to find the right words before saying: \u201cIt was sad, super sad.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Despite the emotionally overwhelming and sleep-deprived day, thinking of his deceased colleague \u2014 an undertaker of more than 30 years \u2014 pushed him to get through the next 24 hours.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">In a way, Amir views it as a way of honouring one of his mentors, who taught him much of what he knows today.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"lg:text-28 lg:leading-33.6px pt-md font-primary text-24 font-bold leading-1.2\">Death is a \u2018norm\u2019, not something to fear<\/h2>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">The unpredictable nature of life and death means that on most days, Amir is on standby 24 hours a day, seven days a week.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">He tells Stomp he gets one or two days off a week \u2014 rarely fixed days, unless he has personal errands to run.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">When asked how his job as a Muslim undertaker has shaped his perceptions of death, Amir replies candidly: \u201cSorry to say, but it\u2019s normal for me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">As someone who has attended a Muslim burial almost every day for the past six years, he does not fear death.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cAt the end of the day, we\u2019ll be heading to the same place some day.\u201d<\/p>\n<hr class=\"bg-primary-100 h-px border-0 mt-lg md:mt-xxl\"\/>\n<div class=\"flex flex-col gap-xl rounded-xl border border-primary-100 mt-lg md:mt-xxl\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.stomp.sg\/assets\/stomp-comment-COLiWNMD.png\" alt=\"Stomp Comment\" class=\"absolute -mt-lg -ml-xs w-[203px] md:w-[255px]\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Have something to say? 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