SINGAPORE \u2013 After months of emotional turmoil, Rose (not her real name) was relieved to finally hear her son\u2019s apology in January.<\/p>\n
Her 28-year-old son Ben (not his real name) said he wanted to take responsibility for his actions when he was high on Kpods, or etomidate-laced vapes, in 2024 and 2025.<\/p>\n
Under the influence of the substance, he attacked his mother in November 2024. Determined to help him get clean, Rose called the police on him then. That did not deter him from vaping, and when his mother locked him out of their home in July 2025, he climbed over the parapet outside their flat and tried to enter through the window.<\/p>\n
He was sentenced to 10 weeks\u2019 jail on May 18 after being convicted of three charges, including violating a personal protection order and using criminal force on a police officer.<\/p>\n
Although Rose, 57, said she was sad to see her son incarcerated, she was also relieved that he has turned over a new leaf. Ben has stopped using Kpods since August 2025, and has been regularly attending group sessions at an addiction recovery centre.<\/p>\n
In a previous interview with ST in October 2025, Rose spoke about how she discovered her son\u2019s addiction to Kpods in 2024<\/span><\/a>, and the various ways she tried to get him to quit over almost a year.<\/p>\n At the height of his addiction, Ben was using up to three pods a day.<\/p>\n He once tried to harm himself while he was high by climbing out of a window at home. When Rose tried to save him, he smashed her head against a wall.<\/p>\n She had to apply for a personal protection order against him, as she was afraid he would hurt her. She spent the subsequent months living in fear.<\/p>\n Speaking to The Straits Times in a phone interview on May 28, Rose said her relationship with her son has improved in the past few months.<\/p>\n She said: \u201cI am heartened that he is doing better. He apologised to me in January and said he was ready to take responsibility for everything he did.<\/p>\n \u201cHe said he was going to find a job after his release (from prison), and I was pleased to hear that, because it shows how much he has grown up.\u201d<\/p>\n As for herself, Rose said she has found a job as a personal assistant and has been seeing a therapist.<\/p>\n \u201cDuring that period, I wasn\u2019t doing well, but I\u2019m much calmer these days. I\u2019ve learnt how to communicate with my son better. I choose to see this episode as a learning experience for the both of us to become better and stronger (people).\u201d<\/p>\n She added that she has forgiven him and even wrote a letter of mitigation, which was presented to the court during Ben\u2019s hearing.<\/p>\n In the letter, she explained that Ben\u2019s actions were caused by his addiction to Kpods, and that the personal protection order against him has been revoked.<\/p>\n She wrote: \u201cThe person I encountered during those episodes was not the son I know. When he is sober and mentally stable, he is hardworking, caring and respectful.<\/p>\n \u201cWhat happened was a crisis brought about by (the influence of substance) and untreated mental distress rather than a reflection of his true character.\u201d<\/p>\n When her son was struggling with Kpod addiction, Rose said she tried to contact the police, the Institute of Mental Health, the Central Narcotics Bureau and social workers for help, but was told that nothing could be done unless an incident occurred.<\/p>\n On Aug 17, 2025, Prime Minister Lawrence Wong announced during his National Day Rally speech that the Government would treat\u00a0vaping as a drug issue<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n This led to the classification of etomidate as a Class C Drug under the Misuse of Drugs Act, and the implementation of harsher penalties for Kpod abusers.<\/p>\n The laws were further tightened from May 1. Now, vape users can be fined up to $10,000<\/span><\/a>. Those caught using or in possession of Kpods can be jailed for up to 10 years and fined $20,000.<\/p>\n