SINGAPORE \u2013 Hearing a school psychologist recommend that her son Marcus leave a mainstream school for a special education (SPED) school<\/span><\/a> left Ms Vivi Lee feeling fearful and overwhelmed.<\/p>\n Marcus, then a Primary 3 pupil, was struggling with reading and keeping up academically, and had occasional behavioural problems.<\/p>\n He was eventually diagnosed with mild autism and attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), a diagnosis that Ms Lee had to deal with at the same time as her husband\u2019s death \u2013 an overwhelming season for the family.<\/p>\n While Marcus\u2019 school offered extended examination times and one-to-one tutoring, discussions with his psychologist about the recommendation led Ms Lee to transfer him to Pathlight School.<\/p>\n For Ms Lee, 46, a freelance coach in emotional wellness, making this decision meant abandoning the familiar milestones of mainstream education, and confronting the social stigma that can accompany raising a child with special needs.<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s hard to talk about (situations like these) sometimes,\u201d she said. \u201cYou feel shameful.\u201d<\/p>\n Marcus, now 15, has been attending Pathlight in Ang Mo Kio since 2022. <\/p>\n Ms Lee has no regrets about the move. Marcus enjoys basketball and takes part in cybersecurity-related programmes, and has grown in confidence.<\/p>\n \u201cAfter slowly learning to accept that sometimes the problem itself is not the biggest problem, but rather how I cope with and respond to it, I began to better understand his learning profile and struggles,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n Ms Vivi Lee and her son Marcus at Pathlight School in Ang Mo Kio on May 18.<\/p>\n ST PHOTO: KEVIN LIM<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n Ms Lee\u2019s experience reflects the difficult decisions faced by a growing number of Singapore families navigating the education system with children who have special educational needs (SEN).<\/p>\n In April, the Ministry of Education (MOE) released data on transfers between mainstream and SPED schools for the first time, after a central application process was introduced in 2023. Previously, these were done at school level.<\/p>\n An average of 200 students move from mainstream to SPED schools annually, with 90 per cent making the switch at primary level. Of these students, 70 per cent have intellectual disabilities.<\/p>\n At the same time, some 159 students went from SPED schools to the mainstream system, with 90 per cent making the move at secondary level. Seven in 10 of those who moved had autism spectrum disorder.<\/p>\n \u201cStudents\u2019 learning needs evolve and develop over time, and in response to intervention,\u201d said MOE. \u201cIf parents and the SPED school assess that a student may be better supported and ready for a transition to a mainstream school environment, they can work with MOE to facilitate a transfer.\u201d<\/p>\n About 80 per cent of students with SEN <\/b>are now enrolled in mainstream schools, a proportion that has remained generally stable.\u00a0<\/p>\n As at December 2025, there were about 29,600 SEN students in mainstream schools <\/b>and around 8,900 in SPED schools.\u00a0<\/p>\n The total number of students with special needs grew by 6 per cent between 2023 and 2025, most likely owing to \u201cgrowing awareness and early identification\u201d, said MOE.\u00a0<\/p>\n Teachers in mainstream schools said they are seeing more students with special needs, particularly in primary schools, where some pupils display more challenging behaviours.<\/p>\n This could result in teachers being stretched thin by overwhelming student numbers and finite resources.<\/p>\n One reason is that there is no baseline competency required for entry into Primary 1, so many parents choose to enrol their children in mainstream schools rather than SPED schools first, said one primary school teacher, who has taught for more than 20 years, and who asked not to be named.<\/p>\n At her school, where every class has at least one child with SEN, teachers use a range of support strategies.<\/p>\n In Primary 1, some of these pupils are placed in temporary classes of fewer than 10 for the first two terms, where the focus is on behavioural and social skills. These skills include staying seated during lessons and not touching classmates\u2019 belongings. They rejoin their form classes in Term 3 in July.\u00a0<\/p>\n Pupils with high needs may remain in these smaller settings for longer, taught by a flexi-adjunct teacher to minimise disruption to the main class.<\/p>\n \u201cEven then, a lot of resources have to be allocated to these pupils so that they can learn, be managed and do not disrupt the lesson,\u201d the teacher said, adding that each child is also assigned to an SEN officer.\u00a0<\/p>\n The pool of such officers \u2013 who work with teachers to provide support to SEN students in mainstream schools \u2013 has risen from 450 in 2017 to 820 now, said MOE.\u00a0<\/p>\n All primary schools have at least two SEN <\/b>officers, while secondary schools have at least one, and more officers are deployed to schools with \u201chigher and more complex needs\u201d.\u00a0<\/p>\n MOE added that all mainstream educators have a \u201cbaseline understanding of inclusive classroom practices\u201d, with five to 10 teachers trained in special needs in each school.<\/p>\n But teaching and managing a group of pupils with widely varying needs is not easy, let alone conducting lessons for them, said the primary school teacher.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u201cLearning common strategies to cater to SEN pupils does not solve all problems. Because five kids with ADHD all behave differently,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n Some students struggle to sit still and will run around the classroom and disrupt lessons, while others have violent tendencies that stem from severe anger management issues and being unable to regulate their emotions.\u00a0<\/p>\n Teachers have been bitten or punched, or have had books thrown at them by pupils experiencing behavioural outbursts, the teacher said.\u00a0<\/p>\n She recalls one incident that occurred while she was heavily pregnant, when she dodged a chair and table hurled at her by a pupil with ADHD.<\/p>\n Her colleagues have also suffered hand injuries when pupils sink their nails into them while acting out.<\/p>\n For some families, strong school support has made inclusion in mainstream education possible.<\/p>\n A 36-year-old mother who wanted to be known as Ms Melissa said her son, who has mild autism and ADHD, felt supported by a proactive SEN officer and teacher before he even started Primary 1 in a mainstream school.<\/p>\n To ease his anxiety, the teacher provided Ms Melissa with pictures of her son\u2019s teachers so she could build a Powerpoint deck for him. During his first few days, a SEN officer accompanied him around the school, paired him with a buddy and arranged extra lessons where needed.<\/p>\n Another SEN officer helped her son, now 10, overcome his trauma of eating in school by accompanying him during mealtimes.<\/p>\n Ms Lim Kah Suan, 40, whose seven-year-old son has multiple disabilities, including cerebral palsy and ADHD, said: \u201cIt takes a village, and in his case, this village is working for (my son).\u201d<\/p>\n Her son\u2019s school made accommodations, from reducing his spelling workload to assigning buddies to help with mobility and printing his school diary in a larger font.\u00a0<\/p>\n Ms Lim, a scientist, said the school\u2019s SEN officer also arranged external therapy support to help her son learn life skills such as using the toilet safely and buying food independently. In another instance, the school\u2019s year head personally helped search for her son\u2019s lost lunch box.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u201cThis school really went out of their way to help my son integrate,\u201d Ms Lim said. \u201cI\u2019m glad he went to this school that supports both his learning and emotional needs.\u201d<\/p>\n Other parents described a more distant relationship with school support staff.<\/p>\n Ms Ava Gao, 38, who works in organisational development and coaching, said her eight-year-old son initially received strong support from an SEN officer when he entered Primary 1. The officer helped him cope with situations such as school lockdown drills.<\/p>\n But since the officer left, there has not been any replacement, she said.<\/p>\n Ms Gao also recalled a Chinese teacher advising her not to tell her son about his diagnosis yet, out of concern he might \u201cuse it as an excuse to get what he wants\u201d.<\/p>\n On another occasion, her son froze when pressed by a teacher to explain why he was fidgety and could not concentrate on his work. Ms Gao said he <\/b>needed to make some movement to regulate himself before being able to focus.<\/p>\n \u201cI feel like sometimes they are just trying to get the student to do something without understanding what is contributing to their behaviour, so I try to share some tips,\u201d she said. \u201cBut of course the class has more than 30 kids.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n \u201cI just hope for more understanding and awareness of neurodivergence, and more training for all mainstream school teachers on how to better support neurodivergent children,\u201d she added.<\/p>\n Paediatricians Ooi Pei Ling, 42, and Kao Pao-Tang, 57, transferred their son from a SPED <\/b>school to a mainstream primary school in Primary 4 after teachers felt that he was academically under-challenged.\u00a0<\/p>\n Their son has mild autism and ADHD. A year and half on, <\/b>Dr Ooi said they have never met the school\u2019s SEN officer.<\/p>\n \u201cAbout once a year, we get an e-mail from the SEN officer,\u201d she said. \u201cWhen there are meltdowns, the main people communicating with me will be the teacher, not the special needs officer.\u201d<\/p>\n Dr Kao said mainstream schools lack the flexibility his son previously received at the SPED school, which had a teacher-to-student ratio of 1:10 and even a tent in his classroom where pupils could decompress when overwhelmed.<\/p>\n While exams are not a challenge, daily classroom interactions like answering questions from his teacher are more taxing for his son.<\/p>\n \u201cWe used to be more focused on allowing him to maximise his capabilities, but now we are retreating to the point that as long as he\u2019s not sad (in school), we are satisfied,\u201d said Dr Kao.<\/p>\n For Mr Kevinder Singh, 44, and his wife Shohiniy Kaur, a 37-year-old homemaker, it was an emotional journey coming to terms with their son\u2019s diagnosis.<\/p>\n They had noticed early on that their son Mikhel, now 11, struggled academically, but thought he just needed more time to mature, much like how Mr Singh was a \u201clate bloomer\u201d growing up.<\/p>\n Mr Kevinder Singh with his wife, Ms Shohiniy Kaur, and their children Mikhel Singh and Mishka Kaur.<\/p>\n PHOTO: COURTESY OF KEVINDER SINGH<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n It was only in Primary 4, after the school called the couple for a meeting, that they decided to seek an assessment. Mikhel was diagnosed with mild intellectual disability.<\/p>\n Mr Singh, a senior manager in the aviation industry, said they struggled with moving Mikhel to a SPED school.<\/p>\n \u201cWe started thinking about what would be the right choice for him and questioned if he would be seen differently by society,\u201d he said. \u201cIt was a difficult reality for us to accept.\u201d<\/p>\n Still, the couple prioritised what they felt Mikhel needed most.<\/p>\n \u201cWe told ourselves that it was more important for our child to receive the support he truly needed rather than forcing him into a path we as parents wanted,\u201d he said, adding that Mikhel\u2019s mainstream school did not pressure them into making the move, but instead gave them the space and choice to decide.<\/p>\n \u201cWhen we got the news about our kids, it was so challenging,\u201d Mr Singh said. Their eight-year-old daughter also has autism and is in a SPED school.<\/p>\n But securing a place in a SPED school is not as straightforward, said parents. To be considered for admission to a SPED school, a professional assessment, school report and psychological report, among other documents, are needed.<\/p>\n Some said that waiting times for official diagnoses can stretch beyond six months, from getting a polyclinic referral to receiving a formal assessment. Thus, some parents opt for the costlier but faster private route.\u00a0<\/p>\n Even then, a diagnosis does not guarantee a place in SPED schools, where vacancies are limited.<\/p>\n At Pathlight, Marcus now thrives.<\/p>\n He is active in school and in the robotics co-curricular activity \u2013 opportunities his mother thinks would have eluded him in a mainstream setting. He also attends lessons at a nearby mainstream school, Mayflower Secondary School, as part of Pathlight\u2019s school partnership programme, and interacts with other children.<\/p>\n After the PSLE, Ms Lee considered moving him back into the mainstream system. But Marcus chose to stay in Pathlight, drawn by its smaller classes and attentive teachers.<\/p>\n After years of coming home from his mainstream primary school feeling discouraged, Mikhel enjoys going to APSN Chaoyang School daily.<\/p>\n He is now a student leader and has won multiple awards, including one for good progress.<\/p>\n Mr Singh said: \u201cOne of the biggest lessons we learnt is that every child\u2019s journey is different and success should not be measured academically… What\u2019s more important is finding the best fit for your child.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n SINGAPORE \u2013 Hearing a school psychologist recommend that her son Marcus leave a mainstream school for a special education (SPED) school left Ms Vivi Lee…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":55703,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2611],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55702","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-buzz-headlines","wpcat-2611-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55702","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=55702"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55702\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/55703"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=55702"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=55702"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=55702"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}<\/picture><\/div>
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