{"id":49298,"date":"2026-05-03T02:39:45","date_gmt":"2026-05-02T18:39:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=49298"},"modified":"2026-05-03T02:39:45","modified_gmt":"2026-05-02T18:39:45","slug":"is-it-possible-to-be-too-good","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=49298","title":{"rendered":"Is It Possible to Be Too Good?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Following through on responsibilities may seem like one of the best qualities you can have. People who are dutiful, orderly, and punctual would seem to have it all when it comes to succeeding in life. These are the basic components of the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/personality\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at personality\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">personality<\/a> trait of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/conscientiousness\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at conscientiousness\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">conscientiousness<\/a>, one of the five in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/big-5-personality-traits\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at Five-Factor Model\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Five-Factor Model<\/a> (FFM). If you\u2019ve got a job to be done, it\u2019s the highly conscientious you\u2019ll count on.<\/p>\n<p>Norm is just such a person. He\u2019s always on time, if not early, for a meeting or appointment. His home is perfectly organized, with everything in its place, and he\u2019s good at following directions. People who know him appreciate these qualities, but sometimes they wonder if he\u2019s just too tied to the straight and narrow pathway of life.<\/p>\n<p>These upsides and potential downsides to conscientiousness are examined in two recent studies. Because conscientiousness is less likely to receive empirical scrutiny than other FFM traits (e.g., <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/extroversion\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at extraversion\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">extraversion<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/neuroticism\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at neuroticism\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">neuroticism<\/a>), these studies provide important insights into the inner life of the dutiful and well-regulated.<\/p>\n<h2>Conscientiousness and Emotions<\/h2>\n<p>Comparing conscientiousness with the other four Five-Factor Model traits (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/openness\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at openness to experience\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">openness to experience<\/a>, neuroticism, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/agreeableness\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at agreeableness\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">agreeableness<\/a>, and extraversion), University of Galway\u2019s Ryan Donovan and colleagues (2026) studied the relationships among these personality traits and the ability to experience strong emotions.<\/p>\n<p>Harking back to the writings of the ancient Greek physician Galen, the U. Galway researchers noted that emotions have always been central to personality traits, which, in Galen\u2019s case, included sanguine (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/optimism\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at optimistic\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">optimistic<\/a>), choleric (angry), melancholic (sad), and phlegmatic (calm). Fast-forwarding to modern neuroscience, Donovan et al. note that there\u2019s evidence to support the existence of \u201ckey emotional networks\u201d in the central <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/neuroscience\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at nervous system\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">nervous system<\/a> that are linked to personality. However, modern personality-<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/emotions\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at emotion\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">emotion<\/a> research is limited by the fact that there are very few empirical studies linking FFM traits to specific emotional states.<\/p>\n<p>Using a combination of an online and in-person samples of 203 adults (18 to 70 years, average age 34), the research team tracked the correlations among FFM scores and emotions, measured both as steady-state feelings and responses to emotion-inducing videoclips. The six emotions were <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/anger\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at anger\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anger<\/a>, disgust, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/fear\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at fear\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">fear<\/a>, joy, sadness, and surprise.<\/p>\n<p>Recognizing the limitations of a correlational study, the authors took a conservative approach in interpreting the findings, noting the need for replication. With this in mind, the results provided a clear pattern showing what conscientiousness can and cannot do for people\u2019s emotional lives.<\/p>\n<p>After viewing the emotion-inducing video clips, the findings showed that it was the highly conscientious who were less likely to experience the feeling of joy. The video used for this emotion was taken from the movie <em>When Harry Met Sally<\/em>, using the classic scene in a diner when the couple talks about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/gender\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at gender\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">gender<\/a> differences in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/sex\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at sexual\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sexual<\/a> relationships and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/relationships\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at intimacy\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">intimacy<\/a>. High conscientiousness scores, particularly on orderliness, were the only personality trait responses to relate negatively to finding this scene funny. By way of contrast, high extraversion scores were related to joy.<\/p>\n<p>Conscientiousness, also mainly due to orderliness, was also negatively related to general feelings of sadness. One possible explanation is that the highly orderly simply don\u2019t have enough experiences to stimulate feelings of sadness. As the authors state, \u201cThis finding suggests that how people structure their environment may be a key shield from experiencing sadness, which may represent a significant motivator for people high in orderliness if they are sensitive to this emotion.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Zeroing in on conscientiousness, then, it appears that all the good and dutiful behavior of those who try to keep their lives orderly misses out on negativity, but also some of the joy or at least <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/humor\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at humor\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">humor<\/a> that life can provide. To find out more about how their narrow focus limits them, we\u2019ll turn now to the second study that delves into the ability to find self-expression in life\u2019s daily activities.<\/p>\n<div class=\"card-group card-group--condensed card-group--border-bottom d-lg-none\">\n<p>Conscientiousness Essential Reads<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<h2>Conscientiousness and Flow<\/h2>\n<p>KU Leuven\u2019s Siem Buseyne and colleagues (2026) took their study of personality to the topic of \u201cflow,\u201d or the ability to feel fully immersed in what you\u2019re doing to the point of not noticing the passage of time or what the activity can produce in terms of results. Anyone can experience flow, but the \u201cautotelic\u201d tend to do so on a regular basis; they are curious, persistent, high in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/motivation\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at intrinsic motivation\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">intrinsic motivation<\/a> (loving what you do), and not likely to get <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/boredom\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at bored\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">bored<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You might think, on the basis of the prior study, that people high in conscientiousness, like Norm, narrow their emotional lives so much that they aren\u2019t capable of being swept away in the state of flow. Surprisingly, though, the highly conscientious were also high on the autotelic trait measure, as found in a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/meta-analysis\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at meta-analysis\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">meta-analysis<\/a> of 24 studies with 524 \u201ceffect sizes\u201d (measure of importance).<\/p>\n<p>Why might this be the case? The authors reason that \u201cthe characteristics of Conscientious individuals are essential for maintaining focus, managing challenges, and regulating efforts toward meaningful tasks.\u201d These are precisely the qualities inherent in flow, \u201csuch as <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/basics\/attention\" title=\"Psychology Today looks at concentration\" class=\"basics-link\" hreflang=\"en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">concentration<\/a> and sense of control.\u201d Compared to the other FFM traits, this one emerged as most highly related to autotelic personality qualities.<\/p>\n<h2>The Upshot: Conscientiousness\u2019 Pros and Cons<\/h2>\n<p>The Buseyne et al. study is unique in showing a decided strength of the highly conscientious. Maybe their narrow focus keeps them from experiencing joy, but it may also allow them to feel internally motivated and able to power their way through the tasks of life. Who knows? Maybe they enjoy all those potentially tedious experiences that the non-conscientious cannot tolerate.<\/p>\n<p>Being dutiful, organized, and especially orderly may have its limitations, at least in terms of joy. However, there is the advantage of being less likely to get into the type of trouble that would trigger negative emotions. Then there is the upside of being able to bury yourself in your daily tasks to the point of not becoming bored or finding them useless. On the whole, then, conscientiousness may make you less fun to be with, but perhaps you won\u2019t care.<\/p>\n<p>Keep in mind, also, that although traits are regarded as stable over time, they are not unchangeable. You may learn through life\u2019s lessons that orderliness pays off if, as Donovan et al. suggest, you\u2019ll be less likely to have negative experiences due to improved coping. This can shape you as the rewards start to emerge compared to the costs.<\/p>\n<p><strong>To sum up<\/strong>, by seeing the benefits of conscientiousness, you may find yourself led to new and unexpected positive outcomes. Maybe you won\u2019t laugh as hard at a funny scene in a movie, but you\u2019ll find other ways to feel fulfilled.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/sg\/blog\/fulfillment-at-any-age\/202605\/is-it-possible-to-be-too-good\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article At Source <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Following through on responsibilities may seem like one of the best qualities you can have. 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