{"id":49058,"date":"2026-05-02T02:40:42","date_gmt":"2026-05-01T18:40:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=49058"},"modified":"2026-05-02T02:40:42","modified_gmt":"2026-05-01T18:40:42","slug":"why-young-singaporeans-see-having-kids-as-a-loss-instead-of-something-to-be-gained","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=49058","title":{"rendered":"Why young Singaporeans see having kids as a loss, instead of something to be gained"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Would changes to Singapore\u2019s education system fix our low fertility rate?<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.straitstimes.com\/singapore\/politics\/new-workgroup-to-drive-marriage-and-parenthood-reset-in-spore-amid-record-low-fertility?ref=inline-article\" rel=\"noopener\" class=\"gap-x-04 items-center inline text-primary-60 select-auto\" aria-label=\"link\" target=\"_blank\" data-testid=\"custom-link\"><span class=\"font-body-baseline-regular inline\" data-testid=\"paragraph-test-id\">new work group, comprising political office holders from various ministries, has been set up<\/span><\/a> to encourage Singaporeans to marry and have children, with broader support from society.<\/p>\n<p>In this podcast episode, I chat with Minister of State for Education Jasmin Lau and stay-at-home mother Vivien Lim, who has three children.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">We discuss the \u201ceducation arms race\u201d and whether the Primary School Leaving Examination really needs to be a such high-stakes exam for 12-year-olds.<\/p>\n<div class=\"article-ads-wrapper\">\n<div class=\"ad-wrapper min-h-249 article-ads\"\/><\/div>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">With the big question looming &#8211; whether we can get the total fertility rate back up &#8211; Jasmin and Vivien talk about their concerns about steering their children on the best pathways, the pressures on their careers and finding joy in parenting.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Read Natasha\u2019s articles:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/str.sg\/iSXm?ref=inline-article\" rel=\"noopener\" class=\"gap-x-04 items-center inline text-primary-60 select-auto\" aria-label=\"link\" target=\"_self\" data-testid=\"custom-link\"><span class=\"font-body-baseline-regular inline\" data-testid=\"paragraph-test-id\"><a href=\"https:\/\/str.sg\/iSXm?ref=inline-article\" rel=\"noopener\" class=\"gap-x-04 items-center inline text-primary-60 select-auto\" aria-label=\"link\" target=\"_blank\" data-testid=\"custom-link\"><span class=\"font-body-baseline-regular inline\" data-testid=\"paragraph-test-id\">https:\/\/str.sg\/iSXm<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Follow The Usual Place podcast on IG: <a href=\"https:\/\/str.sg\/8KNT?ref=inline-article\" rel=\"noopener\" class=\"gap-x-04 items-center inline text-primary-60 select-auto\" aria-label=\"link\" target=\"_self\" data-testid=\"custom-link\"><span class=\"font-body-baseline-regular inline\" data-testid=\"paragraph-test-id\"><a href=\"https:\/\/str.sg\/8KNT?ref=inline-article\" rel=\"noopener\" class=\"gap-x-04 items-center inline text-primary-60 select-auto\" aria-label=\"link\" target=\"_blank\" data-testid=\"custom-link\"><span class=\"font-body-baseline-regular inline\" data-testid=\"paragraph-test-id\">https:\/\/str.sg\/8KNT<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" 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