{"id":45519,"date":"2026-04-18T20:46:37","date_gmt":"2026-04-18T12:46:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=45519"},"modified":"2026-04-18T20:46:37","modified_gmt":"2026-04-18T12:46:37","slug":"new-anti-bullying-measures-in-schools-a-good-start-parents","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=45519","title":{"rendered":"New anti-bullying measures in schools a good start: Parents"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">SINGAPORE \u2013 <!-- -->For Mrs Sher-li Torrey, the news that every school in Singapore will <a href=\"https:\/\/www.straitstimes.com\/singapore\/caning-suspension-among-standard-disciplinary-measures-in-all-schools-by-2027-to-combat-bullying-moe?ref=inline-article\" rel=\"noopener\" class=\"gap-x-04 items-center inline text-primary-60 select-auto\" aria-label=\"link\" target=\"_blank\" data-testid=\"custom-link\"><span class=\"font-body-baseline-regular inline\" data-testid=\"paragraph-test-id\">follow standardised disciplinary measures<\/span><\/a> in cases of bullying brought a sense of cautious relief. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">The 49-year-old, whose daughter has faced bullying in the past, believes a national baseline is a step towards fairness.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cBullying can be very subjective, and in some ways, having a clearer definition of what constitutes bullying and the respective punishments would ensure that, as a starting point, at least parents and educators are on the same page,\u201d the founder of career portal Mums@Work said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Mrs Torrey is among the parents who welcome the clearer standards set by the Ministry of Education (MOE), following new anti-bullying measures announced on April 15. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">They say some steps \u2013 including a new online reporting channel and more resources for schools \u2013 address longstanding concerns about transparency and whether teachers are adequately supported to handle the complexities of bullying. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">The<a href=\"https:\/\/www.straitstimes.com\/singapore\/parenting-education\/schools-to-get-funding-for-more-manpower-to-tackle-bullying?ref=inline-article\" rel=\"noopener\" class=\"gap-x-04 items-center inline text-primary-60 select-auto\" aria-label=\"link\" target=\"_blank\" data-testid=\"custom-link\"><span class=\"font-body-baseline-regular inline\" data-testid=\"paragraph-test-id\"> nine recommendations, <\/span><\/a>which will be gradually implemented from 2026, were born from a year-long review involving 2,000 parents, educators and other stakeholders. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">These include standardised disciplinary measures across all schools, including caning and suspension, more timely and consistent updates from schools to parents, a new online reporting channel and more funding for schools that need support in managing bullying cases. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">But some parents question how promptly schools will provide updates and whether victims who report cases will be safe. They also hope equal attention will be given to restorative work, with counselling and reflection prioritised for all affected parties. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">While MOE has assured timely communication, parents said this may be applied differently across schools.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Drawing from her own experience, in which a teacher provided updates every three days when her daughter, then aged 11, faced bullying in school, Mrs Torrey said a prompt response is assuring for parents. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cI personally think it\u2019s good for teachers to inform parents within three hours of a bullying case being brought to their attention,\u201d she said, so parents can hear both sides of the story. \u201cSometimes, when parents learn about something through their kids, their emotions may take over.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Parents said that having an online reporting channel will help, as students may not always feel comfortable speaking directly to their form teachers. But those who report incidents \u2013 especially victims \u2013 must be protected, they added. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Ms Nora Khamis, a <!-- -->mother<!-- --> of two, said that roping in a neutral third-party investigator or counsellor may be helpful in some cases, so that there is less of a conflict of interest.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cThese third parties also would not have responsibilities like a teacher does and would have more time to manage incidents of bullying,\u201d said the 45-year-old, who works in the legal industry.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">More resources and extra manpower for schools will provide some relief, but some say the responsibility for student outcomes will still fall largely on teachers. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">For restorative measures to work, parental involvement must be mandatory, said a teacher who spoke on condition of anonymity. Drawing a parallel to smoking cessation clinics, he said counselling is effective only when parents participate alongside their children, ensuring behavioural changes are reinforced at home.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Assistant Professor Cheung Hoi Shan from the National Institute of Education said external staff may not fully alleviate the load. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201c(Teachers) have very strong rapport with the students and families because of that interaction throughout the school year. And most of the time, they are first responders to things that happen in the classroom,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">She added that there is a need for more targeted professional development to build teachers\u2019 capabilities in managing bullying incidents, especially for beginning teachers.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"portrait inline-media-wrapper\" style=\"--aspect-article-portrait:920 \/ 1534\" data-testid=\"inline-media-test-id\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-col items-start relative w-fit\"><picture><source media=\"(max-width: 480px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/94f736b349f72b3bc96c5f8a339bada80e9a1cefed6e70b9d406c5c35f9bc347?w=480\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 720px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/94f736b349f72b3bc96c5f8a339bada80e9a1cefed6e70b9d406c5c35f9bc347?w=720\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 721px and max-width: 3999px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/94f736b349f72b3bc96c5f8a339bada80e9a1cefed6e70b9d406c5c35f9bc347?w=900\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 4000px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/94f736b349f72b3bc96c5f8a339bada80e9a1cefed6e70b9d406c5c35f9bc347\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/94f736b349f72b3bc96c5f8a339bada80e9a1cefed6e70b9d406c5c35f9bc347\" alt=\"\" class=\"aspect-portrait flex items-start shrink-0 portrait article-portrait object-contain mobile:w-auto tablet:w-auto\" data-testid=\"image-test-id\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><\/picture><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Dr Jean Liu, associate professor of psychology at the Singapore Institute of Technology, said schools need specialised expertise. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cSchools would benefit from&#8230; access to child protection or trauma experts when claims are sensitive,\u201d she said, adding that a central unit at MOE headquarters could help oversee the most complex cases.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Both academics agreed that while the recommendations send a strong signal, outcomes must be tracked. Dr Liu noted that by releasing a standardised \u201ctable of consequences\u201d, the Government has reduced the guesswork for families.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Dr Liu said keeping records of bullying incidents will help schools better understand the scope of the issue and track what measures work. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Prof Cheung said periodic reviews will help determine whether the recommendations work over time. \u201cThe cue should be taken from teachers about when a review is needed, as different schools come with different experiences, but nonetheless, (the ministry) needs to collect constant feedback.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"portrait inline-media-wrapper\" style=\"--aspect-article-portrait:920 \/ 1778\" data-testid=\"inline-media-test-id\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-col items-start relative w-fit\"><picture><source media=\"(max-width: 480px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/2bc3fec60ef6f10d4d2aa9b6844a9851c733ef71b820e45590bba61fc5194bba?w=480\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 720px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/2bc3fec60ef6f10d4d2aa9b6844a9851c733ef71b820e45590bba61fc5194bba?w=720\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 721px and max-width: 3999px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/2bc3fec60ef6f10d4d2aa9b6844a9851c733ef71b820e45590bba61fc5194bba?w=900\"\/><source media=\"(min-width: 4000px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/2bc3fec60ef6f10d4d2aa9b6844a9851c733ef71b820e45590bba61fc5194bba\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cassette.sphdigital.com.sg\/image\/straitstimes\/2bc3fec60ef6f10d4d2aa9b6844a9851c733ef71b820e45590bba61fc5194bba\" alt=\"\" class=\"aspect-portrait flex items-start shrink-0 portrait article-portrait object-contain mobile:w-auto tablet:w-auto\" data-testid=\"image-test-id\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><\/picture><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Anti-bullying measures have to go beyond \u201cquick fixes\u201d and ensure long-term change, said parents and observers. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">In a statement on April 16, a group of parents, known as EveryChild.SG, raised concerns about the use of corporal punishment, such as caning for boys, adding that there are limits to such punitive measures compared with restorative practices. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cRestorative consequences are more demanding of the perpetrator as they require them to actively reflect, understand the impact of their actions on others and take steps to make things right, rather than just receiving punishment,\u201d they said. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">They suggested steps such as structured counselling or behavioural coaching for the perpetrator to address underlying drivers of behaviour, like emotional regulation or unmet needs. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Mrs Patricia Tan, 54, who manages a parent mentoring academy, said that physical punishment is not a long-term solution, and called for follow-up counselling for both victims and perpetrators. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cI understand that punishment can come in many forms and agree that a consequence is needed,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cBut it is important for a bully to go through counselling so we can get to the root of the behaviour.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Many bullies are \u201cvery broken\u201d, Mrs Tan said, welcoming the extra funding for external pastoral care. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">This sentiment was echoed by Jurong East-Bukit Batok GRC MP David Hoe, who, along with several MPs, has raised concerns about bullying among youth.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">He questioned whether suspension was an effective deterrent or merely a \u201choliday away from the classroom\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Desmond Lee on MOE\u2019s measures to tackle bullying in Singapore schools\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/dSaHq3JZexo?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Suspension should be structured so that it involves ongoing reflection, said Mr Hoe, so that students use the time to think through their actions. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">He said weaving role-playing and scenarios into Character and Citizenship Education lessons will provide students opportunities to practise intervening in real-world situations.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Mr Darryl David, who chairs the Government Parliamentary Committee for Education,<!-- --> <!-- -->said mental health awareness should be a key focus. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cAs we address cases of bullying and support the victim, we also need to understand why this case happened and help the perpetrator as well,\u201d the Ang Mo Kio GRC MP said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cEven as we put in place consequences, counselling and emotional education for all should be key to help students deal with stress and anxiety.\u201d <\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Is this the end of all-boys and all-girls schools? | The Usual Place podcast\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/koyebJpxm5Y?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; 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