Follow us on\u00a0Instagram<\/a>,\u00a0TikTok<\/a>, and\u00a0WhatsApp<\/a>\u00a0for the latest stories and breaking news.<\/em><\/p>\n Now, that routine is gone overnight.<\/p>\n In a post that’s been circulating online, he shared<\/a> how he spent nearly a decade as a cross-border worker, enduring daily traffic jams and long queues at the Customs checkpoints just to earn a better income for his family.<\/p>\n Every morning started the same way.<\/p>\n Before sunrise, he would quietly get out of bed, careful not to wake his wife and children. He would then make his way to the border, joining thousands of others crossing into Singapore for work.<\/p>\n The early years were especially difficult.<\/p>\n He described the experience as “extremely exhausting”, with long hours spent queueing, stuck in traffic, and running on little rest. Over time, however, it became something he grew used to.<\/p>\n “Humans are strange,” he wrote, reflecting on how even harsh routines can become normal.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n Being stuck on the Causeway often made him question whether it was all worth it. But the answer was always the same.<\/p>\n At the end of each month, when his salary came in, and he saw the strength of the Singapore dollar, he would push those thoughts aside.<\/p>\n Working in Singapore allowed him to support his family comfortably, something he felt would not be possible if he stayed in Malaysia, where his income would likely be cut by more than half.<\/p>\n So he kept going. Day after day, year after year.<\/p>\n He said he sensed something was wrong at work, as factory orders were dropping and colleagues were quietly speculating about layoffs.<\/p>\n Still, nothing prepared him for what happened next. When he was called into a meeting with HR, he already had a sinking feeling. The company informed him that it would be relocating its production line back to Malaysia, but his role would not be retained.<\/p>\n There was a sense of irony he couldn’t shake. For years, he wanted to return home. Now that wish had come true, just not in the way he expected.<\/p>\n On the day he received his termination letter, he crossed the border like he always did. Same traffic. Same queues. Same frustration.<\/p>\n But this time, it felt different.<\/p>\n Looking at the long line of vehicles, he realised that soon, he would no longer be part of it. He would no longer have a reason to be stuck there.<\/p>\n Motorcyclists at the Sultan Iskandar Customs, Immigration and Quarantine checkpoint in Johor Baru waiting to cross over to Singapore.<\/p>\n Image via New Straits Times<\/a><\/small><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n That night, he went home and kept the news to himself. He watched his children playing and his wife going about her usual routine, moments he rarely got to witness over the past eight years due to his long working hours.<\/p>\n For the first time in a long while, he could be physically present. But the relief was quickly overshadowed by worry.<\/p>\n With no job, he now has to think about daily expenses, including raising his children and monthly loan repayments.<\/p>\n Friends have tried to comfort him, reminding him that retrenchment is common in a weak economy and that he will eventually find another job.<\/p>\n He understands what they’re saying. But the anxiety hasn’t gone away. More than anything, he fears being left behind.<\/p>\n “I’m not afraid of suffering,” he shared.<\/p>\n “I’m afraid that at my age, I’m no longer needed.”<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n When he was still employed, his biggest daily fear was being late to work because of traffic. Now, that fear has changed completely.<\/p>\n His biggest concern is waking up the next day with nowhere to go.<\/p>\n People walking towards Johor along the Causeway.<\/p>\n Image via Calvin Oh\/CNA<\/a><\/small><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\nFor eight years, a Malaysian man built his life around one routine, waking up at 4am to cross into Singapore for work<\/h2>\n
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In his post, he admitted he had thought about quitting almost every day<\/h2>\n
That routine came to a sudden stop two weeks ago<\/h2>\n
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Now home with his family, but facing uncertainty<\/h2>\n
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