{"id":40987,"date":"2026-04-01T17:37:40","date_gmt":"2026-04-01T09:37:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=40987"},"modified":"2026-04-01T17:37:40","modified_gmt":"2026-04-01T09:37:40","slug":"better-luck-next-time-mother-slams-heartless-duit-raya-note-to-5-year-old-daughter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=40987","title":{"rendered":"\u2018Better luck next time\u2019? Mother slams \u2018heartless\u2019 duit raya note to 5-year-old daughter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div xmlns:default=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\">\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">A mother was shocked to discover that her five-year-old daughter had received duit raya containing a note that read \u201cBetter luck next time\u201d, calling the gesture \u201cheartless\u201d in a TikTok post.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">The tradition of giving duit raya \u2014 packets containing money as gifts to family and loved ones during Hari Raya Aidilfitri \u2014 is often seen as a way to strengthen ties.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">But this was not the case for TikTok user @hartinihariz, who <a class=\"text-primary-brand no-underline hover:underline\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@hartinihariz\/video\/7622854928750365972\" target=\"_blank\">shared a video of the discovery on March 30.<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">The 8-second clip shows a floral envelope that has been torn open, revealing a note that reads: \u201cBetter luck next time! Thks\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">In the caption, the user said the envelope had been given to her daughter during Hari Raya celebrations, but did not specify who it was from.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cThis is not luck, this is heartless,\u201d she wrote.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Stomp has reached out to hartinihariz for comment.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"lg:text-28 lg:leading-33.6px pt-md font-primary text-24 font-bold leading-1.2\">\u2018Too cruel\u2019: Netizens riled by \u2018rude\u2019 gesture<\/h2>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">The post received an overwhelming response, garnering more than 357,000 views and 4,100 likes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Many netizens empathised with her in the comments, saying the gesture was \u201cnot funny\u201d, \u201crude\u201d, and \u201cridiculous\u201d. Some even said it left them \u201cspeechless\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cI\u2019m not sure if this is a joke or not but if it\u2019s real, I just feel is too cruel,\u201d one commenter wrote.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">\u201cDon\u2019t like that lah, especially to young ones,\u201d another netizen said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Others speculated that it could have been a mistake, while several questioned who the giver was.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Some urged restraint. \u201cMaybe the person who gave (it) is going through hard times. Let\u2019s be kind,\u201d one said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Others disagreed, pointing out that the note was unnecessary. \u201cIt\u2019s better not to give than to write something like this,\u201d one added.<\/p>\n<div class=\"flex flex-col gap-xl rounded-xl border border-primary-100 mt-xl\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.stomp.sg\/assets\/stomp-comment-COLiWNMD.png\" alt=\"Stomp Comment\" class=\"absolute -mt-lg -ml-xs w-[203px] md:w-[255px]\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Have something to say? 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