{"id":38306,"date":"2026-03-22T08:21:40","date_gmt":"2026-03-22T00:21:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=38306"},"modified":"2026-03-22T08:21:40","modified_gmt":"2026-03-22T00:21:40","slug":"teens-seeking-friends-but-finding-predators-hidden-risks-of-telegrams-dating-platform-leomatch","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=38306","title":{"rendered":"Teens seeking friends but finding predators: Hidden risks of Telegram\u2019s dating platform Leomatch"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">SINGAPORE \u2013 <!-- -->He prowled online for victims, looking for girls under 16 years old who posted details on a dating bot available through social media platform Telegram.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">James (not his real name) claimed he was a student at the Singapore Sports School, and, like the other young people on the online platform Leomatch, was looking for friends.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Except he was 22, and a working adult who toggled between being a clerk, swimming teacher, banquet server and a Luge operator in Sentosa.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Over a six-month period from August 2023, James lured two young girls into having sex with him.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">In February 2026, James, now 25, was <a href=\"https:\/\/www.straitstimes.com\/singapore\/courts-crime\/11-years-jail-caning-for-man-who-lied-that-he-was-15-and-raped-13-year-old-girl?ref=inline-article\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" class=\"gap-x-04 items-center inline text-primary-60 select-auto\" aria-label=\"link\" target=\"_blank\" data-testid=\"custom-link\"><span class=\"font-body-baseline-regular inline\" data-testid=\"paragraph-test-id\">sentenced to\u00a011 years\u2019 jail and 10 strokes of the cane<\/span><\/a> for statutory rape, sexual grooming of a minor below 16 years old and several other offences.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Prosecutors said James, who cannot be named due to a gag order to protect the identities of the victims, had demonstrated predatory behaviour when he preyed on unsuspecting pre-pubescent schoolgirls. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">In February alone, two men, including James, were hauled to court for preying on young victims. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">One of the first reported cases was in July 2025, when <!-- -->Yong Ming Quan<!-- -->, who was diagnosed with paedophilic disorder and had a history of voyeuristic disorder, tried to lure a 14-year-old boy he met on the dating platform into having sex with him as \u201cfriends with benefits\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">The 31-year-old was arrested and sentenced to a year\u2019s jail for sexual grooming.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Dating apps in Singapore are restricted to those 18 and older. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">There are no barriers to entry on Leomatch, with users needing only to key in their name, age and location. <!-- -->There are more than 14 million monthly users on the platform, based on Telegram data.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Checks by The Straits Times showed that dozens of people under 18 years old have posted their details on the platform.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Based on the age provided by users, the algorithm will lead them to profiles of others of a similar age. But age verification is not required.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">James had pretended to be a 15-year-old. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">If two users \u201clike\u201d each other\u2019s profiles, they can start chatting on Telegram. That is how Yong started with his victim a sexually explicit chat.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Mr Josephus Tan from Invictus Law said that such chats may be considered as sexual grooming, which refers to the act of building up a trusting and emotional relationship with a minor, usually with the purpose of sexual exploitation. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">This could start with simple messages such as \u201cWhat are you wearing to sleep?\u201d, said the criminal lawyer.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Mr Tan said he has seen a 10 per cent to 20 per cent increase in such cases in recent years.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Mr Jason Woolley, a counsellor at Counselling Perspective, said indicators of grooming could be requests for secrecy, or asking to be a \u201cspecial friend\u201d, or pressure to meet offline.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Said Ms Noelle Teoh, an associate lawyer with Gloria James-Civetta &amp; Co: \u201cIn recent months, I have heard this platform repeatedly mentioned in conversations with clients and potential clients, and we are seeing cases where individuals reported meeting sexual partners through Leomatch, including other adults and, worryingly, minors under the age of 14.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">She said the law specifically criminalises grooming or communicating with a child under 16 with the intention of committing a sexual offence. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cAdults could also be charged with sexual exploitation, sexual assault, or possession and distribution of child sexual abuse material if any such content is involved. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cEven if the adult has never met the minor in person, online interactions alone can lead to criminal charges,\u201d said Ms Teoh.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">But why do children access platforms like Leomatch?<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Mr Woolley said that as children and teens are developing their identities, they become curious about relationships.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">He added: \u201cThese (children and teens) might not be engaged socially, in school, or at home, so they are drawn to these platforms because they offer connection and attention. The challenge is that their ability to detect manipulation is still developing. A predator understands this, and can exploit that vulnerability.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Although using these platforms to seek connection might provide some instant gratification, it can come at a cost. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Counsellor Vanessa Lazcano said: \u201cTeenagers are also very vulnerable and sensitive to rejection. So they can still experience emotional harm when they connect with someone and they end up getting ghosted. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cIf a teen is looking for a connection, and if their new friend disappears, they might end up feeling empty and grieve the lost connection.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">In recent years, the authorities, including the Infocomm Media Development Authority (IMDA), have implemented measures to prevent teens from accessing apps that are not age-appropriate. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Dating apps have also imposed age restrictions of their own. For example, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.straitstimes.com\/singapore\/app-stores-to-screen-age-of-users-to-block-kids-from-accessing-apps-for-adults?ref=inline-article\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" class=\"gap-x-04 items-center inline text-primary-60 select-auto\" aria-label=\"link\" target=\"_blank\" data-testid=\"custom-link\"><span class=\"font-body-baseline-regular inline\" data-testid=\"paragraph-test-id\">users below 18 are restricted from downloading Tinder.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">In July 2025, dating app Coffee Meets Bagel rolled out identity verification for users in Singapore, making it mandatory for users to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.straitstimes.com\/singapore\/goodbye-fraudsters-dating-app-coffee-meets-bagel-rolls-out-mandatory-identity-verification?ref=inline-article\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" class=\"gap-x-04 items-center inline text-primary-60 select-auto\" aria-label=\"link\" target=\"_blank\" data-testid=\"custom-link\"><span class=\"font-body-baseline-regular inline\" data-testid=\"paragraph-test-id\">authenticate themselves with Singpass<\/span><\/a>, which is integrated with the app. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">The one-time verification process involves the app retrieving users\u2019 NRIC number or Foreign Identification Number, date of birth, marital status and gender from government records.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Ms Teoh said that Leomatch is not an illegal platform in and of itself. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cThere is currently no specific law preventing a platform from operating in Singapore without age verification, even though IMDA has required major app stores to implement strict age assurance measures for downloading apps as part of Singapore\u2019s broader effort to protect users from online harm.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Following Australia\u2019s passing of a law to ban children under 16 from accessing social media, the Singapore Government said in 2025 that it was in talks with the Australian government to decide its next move on how to protect children and teenagers. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">But <!-- -->Ms Teoh said that the tricky part with Leomatch is that it runs on Telegram, a messaging app. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cIt\u2019s very difficult to control how people use messaging apps, especially since Telegram can be used for all kinds of activities, including illegal ones. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cSocial media platforms have to follow rules like the Code of Practice for Online Safety to reduce harmful content, but it\u2019s less clear how, or if, these rules apply to messaging apps like Telegram,\u201d she added.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Ms Lazcano, who has a teenage daughter, said that parents can step up by educating their children about the risks of meeting new friends through such platforms. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201c<!-- -->Young people these<!-- --> days know more about technology than we do, and they probably know about these apps before we do. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cSo what we can do is be upfront and descriptive of the risks. We should talk about these apps, and what the teens can potentially face (by using these platforms). <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">\u201cAnd I think it\u2019s very important to talk about possible exits, especially when a teen or a child encounters someone who asks for intimate images, for instance,\u201d she said, adding that parents could create a safe environment where children can be upfront about sharing things with them, especially when they are in trouble.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Yong, the diagnosed paedophile, was stopped only when the boy\u2019s father learnt of the attempt to prey on his son.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">The boy\u2019s father devised a plan to catch the predator by having his son agree to meet up with him at their home. They also called the police, who arrested Yong.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Not all predators are older adults.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">In February, a 19-year-old was convicted of two charges of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.straitstimes.com\/singapore\/courts-crime\/probation-and-reformative-training-reports-called-for-teen-who-had-sex-with-underage-girls?ref=inline-article\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" class=\"gap-x-04 items-center inline text-primary-60 select-auto\" aria-label=\"link\" target=\"_blank\" data-testid=\"custom-link\"><span class=\"font-body-baseline-regular inline\" data-testid=\"paragraph-test-id\">penetrating an underage person<\/span><\/a>. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">He was under 18 when he committed some of the offences, and cannot be named.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">The young man had met one of his victims via Leomatch in February 2023, and asked the then 14-year-old to be his girlfriend after chatting for about a week. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">They met in person shortly after, where he asked her to perform a sex act on him, and recorded it on her phone. They had penetrative sex a few days later at a staircase in the girl\u2019s school. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Sex with a person under 14 years old can land an offender a jail sentence of up to 20 years, as well as possible caning and a fine.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Because of his age, the court ordered a reformative training suitability report for the youth as well as a probation report.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">Mr Woolley said young people may not realise that grooming begins with friendliness, compliments and emotional support. <\/p>\n<p class=\"font-body-baseline-regular text-primary\" data-testid=\"article-paragraph-annotation-test-id\">He added: \u201cIt doesn\u2019t immediately begin with sexual requests. It\u2019s important to make sure that they know the signs, and speak to them about online safety regularly.\u201d <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.straitstimes.com\/singapore\/courts-crime\/looking-for-friends-finding-predators-the-hidden-dangers-of-telegram-dating-platform-leomatch\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article At Source <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>SINGAPORE \u2013 He prowled online for victims, looking for girls under 16 years old who posted details on a dating bot available through social media&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":38307,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2611],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38306","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-buzz-headlines","wpcat-2611-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38306","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=38306"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38306\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/38307"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=38306"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=38306"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=38306"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}