{"id":18789,"date":"2025-12-11T22:19:44","date_gmt":"2025-12-11T14:19:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=18789"},"modified":"2025-12-11T22:19:44","modified_gmt":"2025-12-11T14:19:44","slug":"daughter-played-all-day-but-gets-top-school-placement-says-singaporean-mom-in-netherlands","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=18789","title":{"rendered":"Daughter &#8216;played all day&#8217; but gets top school placement, says Singaporean mom in Netherlands"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">A Singaporean mother who migrated to the Netherlands said her twelve-year-old daughter obtained the highest recommendation for her final assessments, despite not studying.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">&#8220;I&#8217;m glad we escaped Singapore&#8217;s PSLE (primary school leaving exam),&#8221; said the woman in an Instagram post on Dec 7, detailing her daughter&#8217;s experience in the Dutch education system.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">The video was posted on @mandarintree.nl, the account of a Chinese language school in the Dutch city of Haarlem. The woman&#8217;s family previously made headlines in 2021 for <span><a class=\"text-primary-500 hover:underline\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.straitstimes.com\/singapore\/community\/ringing-in-cny-abroad\" target=\"_blank\">celebrating Chinese New Year with 300 families over Zoom.<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">&#8220;She had no tuition, barely any homework, and played all day,&#8221; the on-screen caption reads, accompanied by a video of two children riding a scooter and a skateboard.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"mb-[-8px] mt-lg font-primary text-22 font-bold leading-1.5\">&#8216;A privilege to raise my kids in NL&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">In the clip, the mother says she was in tears when her daughter received her results, as they allowed her to enroll in her dream school. &#8220;My tears were not only tears of happiness and pride, it was also relief.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">She added that she had &#8220;zero involvement&#8221; in her daughter&#8217;s studies, even though it felt &#8220;uncomfortable and foreign&#8221; for her as a Singaporean teacher.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">&#8220;We did not mess up as parents not being involved in her studies. What we did was focus on teaching our kids the right values and took [sic] them to experience the world and enjoy their childhood like they should.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">In the caption, she acknowledged the effort parents and children in Singapore put in to their studies, but added that exams in the Netherlands are not a big deal. Dutch children are encouraged to be independent and inquisitive, she said, instead of regurgitating spoon-fed information, taking charge of their own learning.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">&#8220;What a privilege it is to raise my kids here in NL, be able to step back, see the bigger picture and change the way we learn\/ teach,&#8221; she concluded.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">The woman declined to respond to Stomp&#8217;s queries.<\/p>\n<hr class=\"border-t border-primary-200 mt-xl mb-md\"\/>\n<div class=\"flex w-full flex-col gap-md py-md xl:flex-row xl:items-center\"><span class=\"font-primary text-18 font-semibold leading-1.2 text-black\">Get more of Stomp&#8217;s latest updates by following us on:<\/span><\/div>\n<hr class=\"border-t border-primary-200 mt-xl mb-md\"\/>\n<p>Join the conversation<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.stomp.sg\/trending-now\/daughter-played-all-day-gets-top-school-placement-says-singaporean-mom-netherlands\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article At Source <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A Singaporean mother who migrated to the Netherlands said her twelve-year-old daughter obtained the highest recommendation for her final assessments, despite not studying. &#8220;I&#8217;m glad&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1864,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2611],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18789","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-buzz-headlines","wpcat-2611-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18789","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=18789"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18789\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=18789"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=18789"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=18789"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}