{"id":15042,"date":"2025-11-28T05:25:48","date_gmt":"2025-11-27T21:25:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=15042"},"modified":"2025-11-28T05:25:48","modified_gmt":"2025-11-27T21:25:48","slug":"psle-jitters-hit-parents-too-tears-and-relief-after-results-arrive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sgbuzz.com\/?p=15042","title":{"rendered":"PSLE jitters hit parents too: Tears and relief after results arrive"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Tuesday (Nov 25) was a big day for Primary Six students across Singapore, as thousands collected their PSLE results.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">While most students were relieved to move on to secondary school, parents felt the nerves just as keenly \u2014 the sleepless nights, the anticipation, and the pressure of their children&#8217;s futures.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">This year, 37,926 Primary 6 students sat for the exam, and 98.5 per cent of them qualified for secondary school, according to a<span><a class=\"text-primary-500 hover:underline\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.seab.gov.sg\/release-of-2025-psle-results\/\" target=\"_blank\"> joint press release from the Ministry of Education (MOE) and Singapore Examinations and Assessment Board (SEAB)<\/a><\/span>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">But for many families, the results weren&#8217;t just numbers \u2014 they reflected months of worry and emotional ups and downs.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Social media showed just how real the pressure is for parents. Influencer and social worker @runnerkao posted on Instagram on Nov 25 about his wife&#8217;s &#8220;PSLE nerves&#8221; \u2014 unable to sleep before results day and breaking down afterward.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Influencers Alex Lee and Bonita Ma, who run @familee.sg, also shared a video of their eldest son, Daken Lee, collecting his PSLE results. Daken was &#8220;disappointed by&#8221; his score, prompting his father to carefully consider his next steps.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"mb-[-8px] mt-lg font-primary text-22 font-bold leading-1.5\">Parents feel their children&#8217;s anxiety\u2026and their relief<\/h3>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Lawyer Walter Silvester, 49, told Stomp he stayed calm before his daughter&#8217;s results, but the relief &#8220;was really for her&#8221; when she saw her score, as she could look forward to her next steps without &#8220;unnecessary worry&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">For content creator Ana Zeya, 39, the days leading up to results were filled with anxiety. Her daughter had struggled during preliminary examinations, and the tension in the household was palpable. &#8220;When she shaved off 7 points, we were elated,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Investor relations professional Roger Ng, in his mid-40s, said the stress only peaked when he saw his son tense up. &#8220;My first instinct wasn&#8217;t about the number \u2014 it was relief that he could see his hard work reflected,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"mb-[-8px] mt-lg font-primary text-22 font-bold leading-1.5\">A history of PSLE reforms<\/h3>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">In Singapore, there&#8217;s no bigger milestone for a 12-year-old than PSLE.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">First introduced in 1960, the Ministry of Education (MOE) has modified the PSLE <span><a class=\"text-primary-500 hover:underline\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.straitstimes.com\/singapore\/education\/psle-through-the-years\" target=\"_blank\">over the years<\/a><\/span> to address concerns about the competitive nature of the education system and reduce student stress.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">In 2012, the practice of <span><a class=\"text-primary-500 hover:underline\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.straitstimes.com\/singapore\/education\/going-beyond-grades-evolving-the-singapore-education-system\" target=\"_blank\">naming top PSLE scorers was discontinued<\/a><\/span>. One year later, reporting each cohort&#8217;s highest and lowest aggregate scores in the result slips was also scrapped.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">The recent change was the revamp of the PSLE scoring system.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Since 2021, students have been scored by <span><a class=\"text-primary-500 hover:underline\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.moe.gov.sg\/microsites\/psle-fsbb\/psle\/psle-scoring-system.html\" target=\"_blank\">Achievement Levels (AL), which reflect their performance relative to curriculum learning objectives<\/a><\/span>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Scores now range from 4 to 32, with 4 being the best.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">MOE says the changes were meant to <span><a class=\"text-primary-500 hover:underline\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.moe.gov.sg\/microsites\/psle-fsbb\/psle\/psle-scoring-system.html\" target=\"_blank\">reduce fine differentiation among students at a young age and recognise achievement without comparing children to their peers.<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">It is a move away from the previous system, which focused on numerical scores.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"mb-[-8px] mt-lg font-primary text-22 font-bold leading-1.5\">Scoring continues \u2014 and so does the pressure<\/h3>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Parents told Stomp that while MOE reforms, including the introduction of ALs, have helped to some extent, competition and comparisons remain.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">&#8220;Once there is a number, parents naturally start comparing,&#8221; said Mr Silvester, noting that many still think in terms of the old scoring model \u2014 the system today&#8217;s parents themselves grew up under.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Mrs Ana said the changes were &#8220;not adequate enough&#8221;, adding, &#8220;It&#8217;s basically the same thing under different terms, with a slight tweak.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Mr Ng said that even measures to reduce formal exams in schools simply mean families must &#8220;carry more of the load&#8221; at home. &#8220;Not every 12-year-old can self-manage timed practice or revision,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"mb-[-8px] mt-lg font-primary text-22 font-bold leading-1.5\">Navigating choices under full SBB<\/h3>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">After the PSLE results, parents are also navigating the changes brought by<span><a class=\"text-primary-500 hover:underline\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.moe.gov.sg\/microsites\/psle-fsbb\/full-subject-based-banding\/about-full-sbb.html\" target=\"_blank\"> full Subject-Based Banding (SBB)<\/a><\/span>, which affects how their children move on to secondary school.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Under SBB, Primary 6 students are placed into Posting Groups 1, 2, and 3 \u2014 mapped from the previous Normal (Technical), Normal (Academic), and Express streams \u2014 which determine which schools they can enter and the initial level of subjects they take in Secondary 1.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Students can take subjects at three levels \u2014 G1, G2, or G3 \u2014 allowing them to be grouped by ability in each subject rather than overall academic performance, according to MOE.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Over time, they can adjust their subject levels based on their strengths, interests, and learning needs.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"mb-[-8px] mt-lg font-primary text-22 font-bold leading-1.5\">&#8216;Two-way conversation&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">Parents say SBB has changed how they weigh their children&#8217;s next steps \u2014 it&#8217;s now less about chasing cut-off points and more about finding the right fit.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">For Mrs Ana, her daughter&#8217;s eligibility for all G3 subjects made the process straightforward. While school prestige matters to some, proximity was a key factor.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">&#8220;We prefer schools that are near our home, as travelling takes up too much of their already packed schedule,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">For Mr Ng and his wife, choosing their son&#8217;s secondary school is a &#8220;two-way conversation&#8221; about what really aligns with their son&#8217;s needs.<\/p>\n<p class=\"font-secondary pt-md text-18 font-normal leading-1.5 text-grayscale-800\">&#8220;It&#8217;s about helping him understand himself, rather than pushing him toward any particular path,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<hr class=\"border-t border-primary-200 mt-xl mb-md\"\/>\n<div class=\"flex w-full flex-col gap-md py-md xl:flex-row xl:items-center\"><span class=\"font-primary text-18 font-semibold leading-1.2 text-black\">Get more of Stomp&#8217;s latest updates by following us on:<\/span><\/div>\n<hr class=\"border-t border-primary-200 mt-xl mb-md\"\/>\n<p>Join the conversation<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.stomp.sg\/big-picture\/psle-jitters-hit-parents-too-tears-and-relief-after-results-arrive\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article At Source <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tuesday (Nov 25) was a big day for Primary Six students across Singapore, as thousands collected their PSLE results. 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